Don't worry I have no plan to chat you anyway

@jlamela (4897)
Philippines
February 21, 2012 7:33pm CST
Okay, fine, I have no plan to chat you anyway. Lately, I was fed up with the behaviour of this person whom I considered a very good friend without me knowing the treatment in return (to me)was purely exploitation, absolutely using me for something. We constantly communicated, but lately I notice, every time I reached out and send a very important message in yahoo messenger, that person will immediately sign out, oh what a jerk!Anyway I have no plan to hang out chatting. So confused with a very strange, weird behaviour. Why there are people who only get close to you because they just need something?Was it some kind of exploitation? I just can't believe it exists in friendship....
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5 responses
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
This is very sad then. I bet that person only wants some favor from you. And after getting what s/he wants from you, s/he's avoiding you now. Next time better be smart not to get close to online people unless you've come to meet them in person.
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jlamela
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Yes, you are right, this person whom I thought is a friend, just communicate me every time there's a favor to ask but when there's none, this person ignores me to high heaven. It's very disappointing sometimes.
preethaanju
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
22 Feb 12
Not just online even in real life people are like that.90% of them show their back after they get the job done. Even i had this experience online. The people who i percieve as friends will silently vanish without anyvalid reason.Its hurting sometimes
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jlamela
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Yes, that's true, it really hurts sometimes especially when you found out that the one you'd given enough attention will be the one to ignore you.
pachuchay
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
Hello there! I am a chatter too and I must say that there are persons that have the same character on chat too.If I may ask do you this person you are pertaining too personally?I was alarmed when you say he/she is just using you :-s I mean if you have met that person online and if she/he is asking for any monetary favors or the like I think you shouldn't let him do that to you.There are a few factors why he/she is signing out in yahoo messenger one is he/she may be invisible in chat that status can be made on yahoo messenger.Being in invisible status means you don't want to let your friends on your friend's list to know that you are online or that he/she is avoiding someone from his/her list.Second is his/her internet connection.If that person has a low coverage of internet connection and when you send him/her a private message, her yahoo messenger will hang and will automatically sign out.It can be called exploitation if you let that person ask you favors like monetary favors etc..so don't be too trusting specially if you only met that person online there crooks on chat and be careful.
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jlamela
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
You're right! It's just so hard to trust people now adays and all we have to do is be cautious and be careful.
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
At least now you know that this perso is not your good friend at all. We call such person as opportunist. They only are friends with you if they need something from you. Put the incident off you mind , my friend. It will only stress you.
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jlamela
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Yes, that's true, there are people who really like that and sad to say some of them are in our circle. So sad..Yes, you are right, I am putting this person out from my mind to spare me from further stress.
Mashnn
@Mashnn (4501)
•
22 Feb 12
If this happened only once then I would understand but it seems as if he or she was pretending to be good to you just to get a favor from you and once he got whatever he wanted, he doesn't care about you anymore. I suggest you not to send him any more messages and wait and see how she or he will behave.
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jlamela
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
Hi Mashnn, Thanks for your response, you got it perfectly, this friend of mine just get in touch when there's something to be needed but if none then that person totally ignore me as if I did not exist. You are right, the best thing to do is not send a message anymore and maybe cut any communication. That friend of mine is really stressful.