What do you think are the ways to show your husband how you care? :)

@eneria04 (115)
Philippines
February 21, 2012 8:30pm CST
I'm only 24 years old and my soon-to-be husband is already 30 years. I'm afraid I won't be able to give things he wanted for a wife. Do you have any idea about this? This is really bothers me.
5 responses
jasminjasmin
@jasminjasmin (98)
• United Arab Emirates
22 Feb 12
The age gap between you two is good..There is nothing a wife should intentionally do to please her husband.When 2 people start living with each other, then the feeling comes automatically.. Always try to maintain a good understanding, have faith on him, give him space and be caring but NOT overprotective...
eneria04
@eneria04 (115)
• Philippines
28 Feb 12
That's what my mom told us, our age gap is perfect. Yep, we both let our communications open. thanks jasminjasmin!! :D
jasminjasmin
@jasminjasmin (98)
• United Arab Emirates
28 Feb 12
Welcome dear!! Good Luck for your married life!!
eneria04
@eneria04 (115)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Goodluck to you as well Jasminjasmin! :D
Mashnn
@Mashnn (4501)
•
22 Feb 12
A very good gap between you age and your husband. I do not think you need to give anything special to your husband. Just be yourself, love him, support him, be committed to your relationship and appreciate him.
eneria04
@eneria04 (115)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
Thanks Mashnn. Yes, even my mother told me that our age gap is good. He'll be able to take good care of me since I was younger than him. But i'm afraid, i might not be capable of giving him what he wanted or needed. well, paranoia strikes again. hehe
Mashnn
@Mashnn (4501)
•
22 Feb 12
Infact at that age difference, you maturity level is almost equivalent to your husband, so there is nothing to be afraid of.
eneria04
@eneria04 (115)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
that's what other people told me. :) thanks mashnn! :D
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
just always be there for him.be a lover,a wife, a friend to him.It's a one way to show that you care.support him in everything that he do and of course love him.
eneria04
@eneria04 (115)
• Philippines
28 Feb 12
That's what I am absolutely doing. :) Thanks for the reply emdjay! :)
GemmaR
@GemmaR (8517)
•
26 Feb 12
The small ways to show people that you love them are the best, I think. I will do little things for my partner like cook meals for him or give him a massage when I know that he has had a bit of hard day for whatever reason. I also like to buy my partner surprise gifts from time to time, which I know that he likes because he always thanks me for them afterwards. He has a PS2 and he often goes to a bargain shop to buy second hand games. If I feel like treating him, I will take him there and tell him to choose a couple of those games for himself.
eneria04
@eneria04 (115)
• Philippines
28 Feb 12
Wow, you're really sweet. :) It really depends on how you and your partner treat each other. We're really not used to in buying material things, we just want to be with each other. Quality time. :D thanks for the reply gemmar! :D
nicola531
@nicola531 (43)
• Italy
26 Feb 12
Just the fact that you're looking a way to make him happy it makes you a very good soon-to-be wife. Don't worry you'll be a good wife because you have care of him and if he is not a fool he knows that every time I'll need something you'll be there and I assure you that this is the most important thing. Be yourself like you are and good luck: time is a gentleman.
eneria04
@eneria04 (115)
• Philippines
28 Feb 12
oh. that's sweet nicola. thanks for your reply.. it's just that i think my paranoia strikes again. haha