Catholic Church question

United States
February 21, 2012 10:03pm CST
I am not catholic but my wife is and also my kids are. I was told that I can not take communion and I was wondering why. My wife says you have to be catholic but there has to be a better answer then that. I would like to take communion with my family but in the catholic church I cant. Now in my church all are invited to take communion. Thanks in advance for any help with this question.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
Communion is one the seven sacraments the Catholics believe into. But firs you have to take the first one, Sacrament of Baptism where you have to Baptized first the Catholic way before you can take the Sacrament of Communion. For some this just maybe an act.. but for the Catholics it has significance and meanings.
@urbandekay (18278)
23 Feb 12
Actually the Roman Church does not baptise nor any Church that does not use immersion. Baptism means immersion and sprinkling someone with water is not baptism. It is also worth noting that baptism is for those who are of sufficient maturity to understand what it is all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
24 Feb 12
Casandrina, it is not just what I believe it is what the word means; baptism means immersion and that was how it was understood by the early Church, immersion in water, preferably running water. The novel invention of sprinkling water has no scriptural basis and no reason to accept that it is baptism. You cannot have no immersion baptism since that is saying non-immersion immersion, which makes no sense. We must guard against inventions that are earthly rather than spiritual. It is not unreasonable because I have given the reasons here, nor is it my way but the way it was done until this invention of sprinkling water. Acknowledging one baptism is fine, but sprinkling with water just isn't baptism all the best urban
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
I believe people have different perspective of this. We, Catholics go through our own way of baptizing and well, other religions has theirs too. I cannot argue further as i am not knowledgeable with other religion's ways on this one ( sorry) But as a Catholic, those are what we follow and what we believe in.
@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
22 Feb 12
I think you can find the answers on internet, it`s a big difference between Eucharist and Communion as it is understood on the Catholic church and the same things practiced on Protestant churches.I think to be able to take communion you have to be in communion with the church although i see some are saying that Eastern Orthodox Christians are allowed to take communion on the Catholic church. http://www.uscatholic.org/glad-you-asked/2008/11/can-a-non-catholic-receive-communion
@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
22 Feb 12
I told you to leave me alone because i`m not interested to read what your idol bro Eli is telling you.If i will want to read that i can go to his website.Write your opinion about the topic and leave me alone.
@urbandekay (18278)
22 Feb 12
Who is 'bro Eli' all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
22 Feb 12
Iuiuxd, No, most protestant Churches, at least the ones with which I am familiar, welcome all to Eucharist all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
22 Feb 12
The pope has stated that only catholics are real Christians and that even the Orthodox Church is not really Christian. all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
22 Feb 12
Please read more carefully, I never implied the pope had any authority so to do all the best urban
@urbandekay (18278)
24 Feb 12
Well explanations make things clearer, what you do is obscuration all the best urban
• United States
22 Feb 12
I am not Catholic either so I dont know how much help I will be (sorry if I'm no help) I dont think it should matter whether you are Catholic or not The Methodist church that my kids go to do communion and everyone that wants to take communion are welcome to do so. I have a question for you: I thought in order to marry a Catholic you had tobecome Catholic yourself, is this not true anymore?
• United States
22 Feb 12
I am not sure about that but we were married in my church "New Apostolic Church" were also it does not matter what faith you are you can still participate in communion.
• United States
23 Feb 12
Am I correct when I say that The Lord's Supper at other churches is this same as communion at catholic churches? At a baptist church my niece wasn't allowed because she wasn't saved and baptized which meant she hadn't accepted Jesus as her savior. So she couldn't drink of his blood and eat of his body.
• Philippines
26 Feb 12
Communion is one of the sacraments of the Catholic church. Such a sacrament has some requirements that you need to meet in order for you to be entitled to receive it. Your wife's statement of "You have to be Catholic" is one of them. But like what I said, that is just ONE of them. Try to get in touch with a Catholic priest in the church where you and your family go to. (Or to a local Catholic monastery if you feel shy about talking to the local priest.) Schedule an appointment with them. Talk about your discomforts. If you are not happy with one of your consultations, arrange it with another priest. One priest may not be comfortable talking to a non-believer. Another priest may be so happy talking to one. They're still humans. They also have their own biases in life. But what matters most is you approach them with humility, with a hungry soul waiting to be quenched from what's been bothering you about Catholic doctrines. I'll pray for you, my friend.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
23 Feb 12
Why would any non-catholic wanna take communion? Why get unnecessarily up close and intimate with a Catholic Priest? Once in the net, its hard to escape. If you really wanna take the biscuit with your family, why not join? My advise, either sh!t or get off the pot!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
so in what Church do you actually belong dear? I am not a Catholic but a Baptist and to us Baptist communion which we call "Lord's Supper" is exclusive only to believers not members. Non-believers can't partake even if they attended our worship service but those who are non-members but believers could. By believers it mean more than just knowledge and admission that there is God but rather there must be genuine personal relationship with Christ. Now, it is the person who could judge his own self on this matter. Not anyone else. Anyone should partake the Lord Supper worthily otherwise he would be accountable to God. 1 Corinthians 11:27–32 "Wherefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord. But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup. For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body. For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep. For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged. But when we are judged, ewe are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world." Hence Lord's Supper is "open" to all believers, but those professing believers should examine their own selves if they really have personal relationship with Jesus and their true motive for partaking.
• Nigeria
22 Feb 12
There are some certain procedures you have to pass through before receiving communion in the catholic church such as: attending catechism classes and knowing the reason why you want to receive it. Not all catholic are qualified to receive communion even if they've gone through the processes. They need to be in what we call a state of grace and for you to be in a state of grace you must have examined yourself to see if you're worthy of receiving the body and blood of Jesus Christ. You must have also gone for confession before receiving it.
• United States
22 Feb 12
I really don't know the reason other than you are not catholic. I visited a catholic church with my friend and I was allowed to be blessed but I could not take the sacrament. I am a protestant and saved, but that wasn't good enough. I guess I wasn't a real Christian unless I was Catholic... although protestants are off shoots of the Catholic church and considered universal catholic with a small c.
@mcart82 (87)
23 Feb 12
I am a Catholic, I don't practice that much but have been for ever. Communion is only for catholics because you have to do the Holy Communion before you receive it in general, you takes classes and prepare yourself for it before. Also Catholics believe that you have to be free of mortal sins before receiving the communion, since is the body of Christ, a person who has a missed a sunday mass, or has any type of mortal sin cannot receive it.
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
We are catholic .But maybe u can take communion in our church as long as ur conscience is with us.U can hear mass in our church and u can take communion also in our church...Nobody knows u who or what ur religion is as long as u will attend and join our mass here and obey what we are going to........So u can join us.