my husband sleeps early morning...

I agree with you that it is very hard to break a habit, not unless a person is determined and committed to break it, it would really break. thanks

It is his habit already, and i told him straight over and over again sometimes i get tired of telling him so i just let him do what he wants to do.

I was tasked to do a report in my personality development class about habit. And you know what, habit are really hard to break even if you follow those ways on how to eradicate those negative habits. It is already up to the person already if he/she is willing to change and listen to others' good points.

Yeah i know that keeping it to myself will make things worst because he will not know my issues and he will think that everything with me is okey when infact i feel hurt bad about the marriage...

Hi anisa, thank you for the comment... We do have something alike with our husband... My husband work online and sometimes he prefers to work on night hours so that nobody will disturb him as he work, because we are still living with his parent and he is the first child so he is the one who are easily seen when there's some errands, sp he cannot concentrate... But he made a promise if we are on our own house he will sleep early already ...

I feel sad while reading your post Ms. Kheydia cause am in the same situation as you are..but for me, I have two kids and is conceiving again for two months now.. My hubby sleeps like 3am if not 4-5am.. He's good and a loving husband..but, we barely eat together and sleep together. He was like that also before we got married. Sometimes, I feel like giving some space for myself because seeing him doing like that makes me more helpless and disappointed. I still work at day and my mom-in-law is taking care of my kids while am out while he most of the times is sleeping and wakes up at 1-2pm and report at work at 3-4pm. He doesn't even have the time to prepare food for himself. I love my husband and I know I am a good wife. I wanted to be a good wife for him, taking care of him and make food for him but he's not giving a chance. I feel so like trapped in a situation where I wanna get rid of him cause it makes me feel helpless..Sometimes, we go outside with my kids during weekend. And, that's the only consolation maybe he could give me.. By the way, he sleeps morning because of computer as well as playing online games.. I just hope there's still hope in cases like this..:-( Feeling worse, Anisa

Yeah, communication is the best way to make things smooth and in order, how about that when you want to have a talk and he's not around to listen because hes busy infront of the computer...

i have told him about it many times, when i was pregnant i cannot sleep unless he's already in bed too, he knows it that i cannot sleep when he still up but still he still doing it...

really?/ before he was become your husband, is now his style?

yeah really his lifestyle and so with his siblings. kinda a habit already that they are having a hard time getting rid of it...

Oh my, he should realize that you were having a hard time and that he is being so unfair, try to tell him your feelings in a very nice way, you need to voice out your side before it jeopardize your health, remember that health is wealth.

See, so thats why i cannot follow what you say to join him in being awake until late.. Besides he's doing hes work at late although he can do it during day time... and he knows what i feel about that...

Well i cannot do that really cannot do that if i would have to stay late like him chances are i would become anemic as i had to wake up everytime our little daughter would wake up between her sleep at night, and i cannot stay in bed late when our little daughter is already up, who then would take care of that little one when i become so exhausted and lack of sleep, while my husband is resting with all his care?