My baby doesn't like eating meals...

@kheydia (882)
Philippines
February 22, 2012 5:16am CST
My daughter is 1year and 5months old, she's a breastfeed baby, she's already eating food that we eat but rarely, i had a hard time letting her eat food, coz everytime i feed her she will throw it from her mouth, sometimes days later she will eat solid foods 3times a day but in the next day she will no longer eat it, she will just taste it and then the 2nd feed she will throw it out her mouth, another problem is well not really a problem but it will cause me lots of time with her when i put her to sleep she cannot sleep until i feed her with my milk and lie down with her.... Moms outthere do yu have any opinions about this?
2 responses
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
22 Feb 12
Well I haven't had an issue like that with my daughter and she is a year. Yeah when my daughter isn't hungry or is done eating she'll play with her food. Like putting it in and then taking it out. That is normally when I take the food from her and tell her enough then. When my daughter first started eating solid food I would put her bottle which is no a sippy cup with her meals and have her drink a little and then put food in her mouth. At bed time I don't care if my daughter wants a bottle or not when its bed time. I lay her down I let her cry it out after a few minutes I'll go in there calm her down and do it again. This is how I taught me daughter when me or her dad lay her in her crib its sleep time and you will go to sleep. Even if it takes 4 hours to do. We started that months and months before she was a year. After she goes to sleeps and wakes up in the middle of the night my daughter can have bottle. Toddlers will be toddlers so they will test your limits and its about setting them to how far your going to let your child go. she isn't a baby any more she is in her toddler years so its the start of the kicking and scream stage of life.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Yeah i guess so, being a parents require a lt of patience and perseverance to train them...
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
27 Feb 12
Yes it does take a lot of patience and perseverance to teach our kids. Eating isn't really teach your kids. Its a skill they learn over time. Some times the baby is ready before the parents is and other times the parent is ready for the baby to eat and they aren't. Just take it slow there is no rush into eating specially changing from milk to solid food it does take a while for a baby to understand yeah it won't fill you up as fast but you won't be as hungry as often. They have to learn when to stop eating. I was lucky with my daughter she is pretty much a good eater and will eat anything you now put in front of her. Back when she first started out she wouldn't eat solid food so I had to trick in to eating it. So babies just take a bit longer then others its perfectly normal they playing with it and stuff. Its a different texture. I'm now ready for when my second baby comes and its time for him/her to eat baby food.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
29 Feb 12
Oh yeah when my daughter get sick she wants her bottle all of the time. Half of the time she won't eat when sick even some times when she teething and has a fever.
4 Mar 12
hi, i have a daughter too, she is 1 year and 8 months and i have same problem like you have, and i was advised not to feed her an hour before meal time, make her starve and give her solid foods when she asks for milk, i tried it though, she really will eat what you serve, but you have to be strict on it because if you don't she keeps doing the spitting out thing...but anyway, you have to be more patient the first weeks you are doing that because she already learn spitting out the foods and she will be doing it again and again, with that you have to discipline her, make her realize what she is doing isn't good. And about her sleeping manner, well the same with mine too, but i notice, when she gets tired from playing, she sometimes play the crying thing when she feel sleepy and ask for milk but i just let her cry, or when she gave much noise i give her alternative toys, some toys she don't often see or new to her eyes, then she will start playing on it, then when she is tired she just fell asleep without my attention. I don't know if it will do the same effect to your baby, but since our kids almost have the same problem with eating behavior and sleeping, it might help her too.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Oh, i appreciate that, i will try to do that as well, amybe it will work for her, there's no harm in trying right?... I'm just worried about disciplining her in spitting her food out of her mouth, how did you do it that a 1yr old will understand thaT what she's doing is bad?...thanks