I felt I couldn't do anything

Hi LK Unfortunately this is what life is all about as I have understood it. When you are not growing (as in you are single or even dont have anything much to do on the weekends) your partners (the friends who used to be with you earlier) today have either migrated to other places in search of livelihood or opportunities or even have got married and have been busy attending to their own responsibilities and you are left all alone. I realized this during the days between 1996-2006 the long 10 years when I wasnt married or even bothered to get married and believed that all the fun was being single. Lately I felt that yup, it might be fun doing what you want to without anyone nagging you to do this or that or even be burdened with responsibilities, still, there is something that is missing... something which I wasnt sure of. When I got to meet her, and before the days we fell in love, I started to feel that "missing" thing missing. I dont say that finding a girl is the solution but it has been good for me. Maybe it is time to think and re-construct your life again... again this is life- you keep on fighting and finding learning new ways to handle the similar situations again and again. Btw, it is great to see you back. Though I havent been too active still I have a small list of Missing Friends and You are Second on that one. Hope that in the coming days, you leave this "Missing Friends List" of mine

As for me, if you want to be free as a bird, choose what makes you happy. If you are not free at all, you can choose other ways to make you happy as long as it is legal. You choose to make you happy to be free like a bird. Do not let yourself burden with sacrifice. Example if a person is always complaining about the low salary and it is like ripping his heart into two, that person can find other work to make him happy and to be free like a bird. No more burden with sacrifice as long as it is legal and it is still in the right way or else, you are the only one who is going to suffer. We must have physical, mental and spiritual healthy. I sometimes feel that way but I have to fight for it. I always think for the future and I do not know of what would happen to me if I would just give up the fight because if I would give up the fight, I know I am not going to be free like a bird. I really want to reach that goal, my happiness and desire to be free like a bird.

Find new friends Letran, from them you may discover things that would interest you or yes it's right for you to talk to your old friends and rekindle old times. Don't hesistate in talking to them, maybe they're just waiting for you.

Hi man how are you doing? I feel that you really have to worried for you because you have been in this same mood for a while. You need more discipline from you. Maybe you don't want to do things right now but this will never be the best decision. Remember that you don't get older in spirit until you start acting like a tired old man. So please try to move on, do things for yourself and you will find your way. ALVARO

Hi Lk, i miss you... All of us feel that way and you'll get through in this. There are times that life is boring and we feel like irritated on how we act. That's normal LK.. Just try to keep yourself busy and more enjoyment..i wish you the best in life..

Hi,guy!!!I'm new here in mylot.Sometimes I also feel down,and always think of life like "Waiting for Godat" all of the woods empty,the future ?Just come on,guy!!! Although we get worse today,tomorrow will always be new!!!It's never too late to realize what's important in your life and fight for it.Happy lotting :)

Sounds like you are dealing with depression. Depending on how bad this is you may need medication. As we get older our bodies change, hormone changes for both men and women are very difficult. Try to get yourself going again, find a place that you can give to others, this is the easiest way to take your mind off your problems. You can make new friends and stay busy at the same time. When you first start something new you may feel you just don't have the energy but if you can just keep with it, pretty soon you will find yourself looking forward to your new endeaver. But also consider touching base with your Doctor and make sure nothing that needs attention is getting ahead of you. Blessings, with a prayer or two thrown in.

dear LK, What troubling with my dear brother lately? Hmnn....maybe you need someone to talk with. Someone who will always stay by your side

Hello LK, We have ups and downs always, but keep looking on the bright side, when we are down there, the next direction to take would be up. We all made our choices, be they good, be they bad, they are our own.

hi LK, I understand the feelings but sometimes if you are committed with your family you can't have the so called FREEDOM even you are single. But time will come you will find your own way to enjoy your life in a way you want it you just need to fight for your own happiness. miss yah

I'am down in spirit now just like the cloudy sky.These days i'm puzzled about my future .I don't know which road to choice. What's worse i lose my confidence now .I don't believe myself now. It's very stange that sometimes i believe i can get anything i want,but sometims just like today i realise i can not do anything well. So now i want to do nothing including saying any words to my friends .I want to go home. i miss my mom badly but i know escape can do anything useful so i turn to music hiding myself in the rates.

your not alone feeling that way sometimes or frequently i myself think of that way too..like now that i resigned from my job sometimes i just think of something that i didn't do to make myself be more worthy of all things my family gave me specially all the materials things they allowed me to have.i sometimes thought that i am a useless person because i don't have anything to be proud of myself as an individual and as a person because i always thought that i don't have any achievement to tell.