Divorce, Divorce, Divorce, what disease this is?

Divorce is not a kind of disease, my friend. It's a kind of behavioral ego of a person. This happen because many people is not contented in what they want in life and having no fear of God. In my opinion divorce is a kind of acts of violence in psychological aspect not a natural circumference to define the ability of a person to love someone

Hi dilrajj, there is no perfect situation in life.When couple marry , they want to have a family and make a success of their life.But, in some extreme cases they realise that they are mismatched, they may try to pull on for some time but unless there is 100% effort from both sides there is bound to be frustration and unhappiness, so instead of leading a miserable life isn't it better to separate and carry on with their lives...Divorce cannot be created by one individual alone either male or female.It requires two hands to clap...

I think today's marriage are mostly associated with lust than love. When lust is over, marriage are broken and both seek a second option for the lust. marriage is a bonding, understanding but it is lessened now and that is why divorces raise. have a nice time.

For me i had divorv=ced coz of we cant understand each other.But special in me i always got violence.And long distance can make divorce in house hold.Sometimes divorced can happend cause of strange person come into our house hold.I hope u it didnt happend in ur house hold.take care.

I believe both women and men intend to have a divorce when they believe the relationship can not go on the way it does. The reasons can differ from case to case, but mostly they are either money, another lover or work related. Everyone should evaluate first their situation, and if children are involved it should be treated seriously.

i think it is not good to do among any one.

As I understand though I am not yet married, Divorce is a big word to consider in every relationship, couples sometimes tried counseling and it just end up having a divorce, maybe its not by who were talking about but why.. I guess in every relationship we experience so many thing such as problems, hardship, and the most common thing the LOST OF LOVE, betrayal.. so many factors to think about, but every marriage should also consider that this things happen for a reason, that's why I don't want to get married because of this things that you can't predict to happen. my cousin would like to file an annulment case but then she thinks about her kids, why is it that the kids always suffers from their parents.. that's a big question when I think about divorce..

Men are more aggresive and decisive. I think men tend to cause devorce. women are receptive and willing to accept consequencies. What do you say about it?

I think the "disease" is the Realistic Disease. I think it's only realistic that a couple doesn't stay in love forever, that seems like madness in my eyes. What are the statistics again? 2 out of every 3 marriages end in divorce? I forget, but it's a pretty big percentage. I don't know though if women or men 'create' a divorce. My best response would be that it's a "team" effort - if a marriage is failing I would guess it's most of the time, both of the parties' faults.

I don't know dilrajj. I think it's probably a toss up between the male and female. I know alot of men and women cheat on their spouses, but I think the male does it the most, and that is a big reason for problems in a marriage and divorce. Then again, I think alot of women just nag and nag and that is enough for a man not to want to come home after work. I wish some women could maybe hear themselves and be given an opportunity to change this so they could hold their marriages together.

There are several reasons why people divorce more often. People are becoming less and less religious, it's socially accepted now and depending on where you live it might have become easier legally. I think the most prominent reason why divorce is so common is because we have become more and more individualistic. People are more egocentric and think a lot more about their own happiness instead of being happy as a couple. When there's a bad period around it's easier to just cut and run instead of dealing with the problem. Another reason is because they grew up in a divorced family themselves. They're used to the idea which makes them less likely to shy away from it. There are of course a lot more reasons why people get divorced so often in current society. These are just some I could think of right now. Statistically women file for divorce more often than men btw.