Our home life is like a soap opera, it's insane at times.

Canada
February 22, 2012 8:57am CST
I wanted to post this last night, but it was getting late and I wanted a clear head to do so. The past few days alone have been enough to write a soap opera with what's gone on around here. As some of you know, my husband and I have roommates. 2 are a gay couple living in the basement with their dog. Our other basement roommate, he used to live with his girlfriend, actually, she used to live here. She moved out, insistent that she would never come back. Well, low and behold, she keeps coming over. She's not welcome here and she knows it, but he still brings her here. I guess he's secretly hoping that she'd move back in. Well, my other roommates are angry. They live here and pay rent, she doesn't. She comes over, does her laundry, cooks and just wastes money by using the utilities that we pay for. We decided the other day to remove all laundry supplies from the laundry room so she couldn't use them and waste them. She gives the guys dirty looks, like they're not supposed to be there and she is. They've posted up signs all over the apartment down there to hopefully send the hint that she's not wanted and that she cannot use the facilities meant for those who pay for them. One of the guys is actually terrified of being down there alone because of the other guy. He can get pretty scary. He's been told several times not to smoke in his room, yet he continues to do so, and now he's smoking pot in his room instead of going outside. It reeks in the basement of that, and no one is amused. We're hoping that he'll take the hint and get out, but he'd be breaking his part of the lease. But at least we wouldn't have to worry about him eating up all the hydro since he already does that. If he were to move out, my other roommate who lives upstairs would move down to his room and pay more rent. We'd use his room for storage and let the guys downstairs have a living room finally. My mother in law came over for the weekend, and she's a real pain in the rear when she's here. Everyone laughs at her behind her back because of what she does. She constantly talks to herself, even when no one's talking to her. Until she's sleeping, she's talking. Well, Sunday, Monday and yesterday morning were crazy with her sleeping on the couch in the living room. According to her, we're not allowed to start our day early in the morning, even if we need to. such as the dog needing to go outside. 3 days in a row, she was woken up, not too early mind you, by us, starting our daily routines. She'd turn over on the couch and mutter under her breath, "f*cking a$$hole" and try to go back to sleep. This is why we don't want her staying over. I went to work for a couple of hours yesterday, and when I got home just after noon, she was still sleeping on the couch!!! Talk about lazy. She refuses to take the hint that the day is half over already and it's time to get up and deal with it. We're hoping to get a cot for her so we can stuff her in the other bedroom when she comes over, so we don't disturb her when we get up in the morning. I don't understand these people sometimes, they just drive me nuts.
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6 responses
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
13 Sep 12
I find the situations you describe to be amusing. Were you able to get rid of the pot smoking roommie? How about the MIL? I don't think I would want either of those people around from the way you describe them. I hope that you were able to get some peace and quiet over the last 6-7 months. How is everything going for you? Have a great week!!!
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
My family is also like this sometimes. I don't know what script are were following if we do have a script. Some people are just too much and full of their own self- interests at times that it is sometimes more preferable to build or find another house or home. Each person in the household have their own difficult times and sometimes their selfish notions go over the house as if there are the only one living there. It's hard to keep a very long string of patience but that's what you do for the sake of some sembalnc of peace. But then, the frustration might be too much sometimes.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
22 Feb 12
I would boot the guy out that is smoking pot in your house. It is illegal and he certainly will not try to take you to court for booting him out. As for the girlfriend, she would be told that if she is using the utilities, she will pay or can't come back. Your mother in law, I would tell her that she is welcome to stay, but your schedule is different from hers and she will have to adapt to it, it is your house.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
22 Feb 12
Well, first thing I would do is to ask this guy to please not bring the girl there or that you were telling her to leave and I would call the police if she didn't. Secondly, I would put him out for smoking pot or even having pot in my house as that can get you in trouble. It is time for him to move on. As far as the mil, I think that if she is going to be at your home, then she respects your rules and she respects the time that you have set for your routine or she stays at a hotel.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
I guess you will be winning the grand prize winner in any soap opera entries. You delivered it well clearly. You have related the true happenings in normal life of different people with different personality and behaviors. Despite of those problems they give to you.. Still patient you are to understand them and just made a soap opera diary to have other ways to release your thoughts, and hard times with them.. If you will notice having those kind of people in that environment is much complicated that raising a child. When you raise a child,you can teach and scold him if needed and expect not things to happen that you do not like, but when adults from other people in different personality especially INSENSITIVE to other people ? "you feel like you are talking to AIR" no direction, no effect"..The much affection is in you rather them because you are affected with their acts, because you care and you are not insensitive.. And if they take it a negative act in you? well, i guess they have great problems disturbing in themselves.. They will just trigger you to get mad, just do not mind them.... They will just make you look old.. Time will come they will just evaporate from that place...
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
oh my friend, this is just all too complicated for me to comprehend, but if you liken your situation to a soap opera, guess the only consolation I could give or say to you is that all soap opera has and end, I just hope that it ends in a positive way that would favor you or something... good luck and best wishes