Do you find a little bit 'controlling' a little bit sexy?
By maezee
@maezee (41988)
United States
February 22, 2012 9:01am CST
Ha ha, I was just thinking about this. As part of a pattern I've noticed with guys that I have liked in the past, a little bit aggressive, a little bit controlling, and a little bit jealous is something that I think is a...Well, a little bit sexy!
Obviously there is a line not to be crossed with this one - too aggressive, too jealous, and too controlling are all very bad things. But I find that I appreciate it when someone I am interested in gets a little jealous of me and someone else. It kind of makes me smile a little bit.
Am I alone in this?
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5 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
that is very exciting for me actually,yes being too aggressive ,too jealous and too controlling is really bad but sometimes even one of them should exist once in blue moon like too aggressive,and too jealous,but i don't like a man too controlling.
@giannix (2)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
No! You're not alone.. Ahaha I agree with you, I find it sexy but of course there are things to consider like what you have thought, too controling is a bad thing. :)
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
22 Feb 12
Psychology says There's a bunch of factors that have come together from your upbringing and development to make you into the person you are with the preferences in a partner you have..and so long as you can find someone whose needs you can complement,it'll make both of you happy-good luck if you haven't met that right person yet!
@TheIrishClog (985)
• Ireland
22 Feb 12
You're not alone, or the world would have a lot more single men. A true man's man, good, balanced testosterone levels, is something that I think a lot of women if not the greater percentage, are attracted to, whether or not they admit it. I think it's built into us to want a strong man who will tell us what to do, defend us and gets a bit jealous every once in a while.
