How To Have An Abortion For Married People.

How To Have An Abortion For Married People. - How To Have An Abortion For Married People, is it right for a married couple to have an abortion...
Netherlands
February 22, 2012 6:13pm CST
I'm finding it so difficult to advice my brother and his wife on the right step to take with the problem they are facing right now, his wife just had a baby 9 months ago and now they made a mistake of not using protection and ended up expecting a new baby which they don't need at this time, now they want to go for an abortion, but they wants to know if it is right for a married couple to have an abortion, is this against the law? is it right for then to do this, are there any implications to having an abortion, please help with a great solution from your heart...
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• United States
23 Feb 12
If they live in the US there is no law against it. Any woman can have an abortion. If they can live with their decision, they can go for it. I had one in 1972 and it was the worst day of my life. My father forced me to go have an abortion or he would throw me out on the street with no means of support. He made the appointment for me and it was all clinical and done in no time, but I grieved for 30 years... I still grieve sometimes for the baby I didn't allow into the world. That baby or fetus didn't ASK to be brought into my body, yet I got rid of it. I wish I were stronger back then and told my father to go to hell. But I was scared. It's been very hard living with myself all these years. You don't think you will have any emotion about getting rid of an 8 week or younger fetus, but if you are human, you can't help but have feelings for something that didn't ask to be made in the first place... just saying...
• Italy
26 Feb 12
So wait... in US you can even abort a 7-8 months old baby? there's no age limit?
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
23 Feb 12
The best thing for them to do would be to talk to their doctor and to the various Social Services to see what support and options are available. Many people have children a year or so apart and actually find that having two children so close together is easier than having them further apart. If their first child had been twins, they wouldn't have even THOUGHT of getting rid of one of them, after all. Abortion is not illegal in the UK so long as there are very good medical reasons for it but no good doctor would sanction it, I believe, unless there was a very real possibility that there would be harm to the mother or baby if the pregnancy came to term. Abortion is a risky operation for the mother and should certainly only be done under proper medical supervision. The NHS website and information on the subject is here: http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Abortion/Pages/Introduction.aspx A quick resume of the law in the UK can be seen here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_the_United_Kingdom
• United States
23 Feb 12
It definatly isnt unlawful, but if they are connected to a church, they may be going against those beliefs. I think they should look into adoption.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
23 Feb 12
I don't think it is against the law for married people to have an abortion. Is the baby they just had their first child? I would just wonder how they would explain it to their family and their child the choice they made to get rid of the baby. I'm usually pro choice but I really don't think it is the right choice in this situation. They made the mistake of not protecting themselves and now they are going to have to handle the consequences.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
23 Feb 12
I think that abortion is very much the wrong thing to do. One of my friends got married when she was 38 years old. They had a baby in May 2007 and another baby in May 2008. She liked having her babies so close together. So her babies were born when she was 39 and 40 years old. I would tell your brother and his wife to have their baby born and then she how they feel. If they then don't want their baby adoption is available. If she has an abortion she might years later get very sad and depressed. Therefore her marriage might end and they would split up. Their 9 month old baby needs a younger brother or sister. I say give the baby a chance to live and be happy in a loving couple's family.
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
Well if you know that abortion is Good well go for it, but if you have to think the ways how life goes, we make always mistake from the past. they are already old enough how to do the right thing for the first place, they must discipline and be responsible for what is there accountability. they are normal, so be normal and go ahead suggest to your brother not to abort there baby he should know how lucky to have this kind of blessing think right and not think about the money they just don't know how to manage there marriage life if they want have family planning or not there are lots of ways how to control, but not abortion, just respect there self so that they would know how difficult to do mistake again, God Bless to you and to your brother and his wife.
• Italy
23 Feb 12
In my country (and I think pretty much in the whole Europe) abortion is illegal if the baby is 3 months old. But if your brother is a believer even if the baby is less than 3 months old there's a chance that one or more gods shot random beams at him.