My parents

Vietnam
February 23, 2012 12:46am CST
My parents have 5 children. They worked hard and courage to raise us all. They gave all us go to school. Raising 5 children up is not easy. But we're sometimes angry our parents because we think that they don't treat fairly between us ! We make them sad! Now, we were grow up and getting married. They still work hard to care youngest children who are students. We can't help for our parents because our income is too low. I feel shy about myself and I feel love my parents very much. But I don't know what I can do.
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8 responses
• Indonesia
23 Feb 12
Your problem same like me.every parents in this world wnat to see they children have happy life.So it make they will do everything to their children happy.I think you didnt must help your children with much money,maybe if u have enough money u can buy some books or new shoes to ur youngest sis/bro.You can try to give ur care to ur parents,they will more feel happy if u always care with them.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
23 Feb 12
good comments for the response by you, hope you fine.
• India
21 Apr 12
You can give your love and support to your parents since they are trying so hard to raise all of you. Even if you are not able to help them financially, your unconditional love and support will motivate them to move on in life and to be happy with whatever God has given to them. They will never feel alone and look upon you for your emotional support. Best of luck.
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 12
You do not need to be upset. Helping your parents, you can do with a lot of ways. Helping does not have the money. But, with you always love your parents, and attention to your parents, you've enough helped your parents. It will be evident, if you can help with money. But, it would be more meaningful if you can help give encouragement to your parents, always loving, and caring for your parents. If you have a better fortune, you can help your parents in the form of money.
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
23 Feb 12
Hello tkonlinevn, We are 4 brothers and i know how much pain my parents took to raise us i can't write it in words.I remember whenever we demanded anything they tried to buy it for us.But now when i am growm up and have my own kids i don't help them financially because still now my father is getting good pension as well as rent of property they never sked me for any financial support.I know they don't need money from me i know they just want a moral support and want me to take care of them when they become old and weak and i try my best to offer them what they expect from me. Its sad that these days people think their parents to be a burden once they grow old and leave them alone.
• China
23 Feb 12
to be honest, I am also in an extended family with four children. As you know, in village, those families was probably quite poor and so did mine. And now I have been employed in a middle school with lower wage which just can support my daily use. However, my parents who are in their sixties and without any supportings except doing some housework to feed on. so sometimes I felt quite frustrated when I came back home. I hope I can give my parents a better life and give them what they need. Anyway, I will try my best and I hope you will.
• Canada
23 Feb 12
You don't need to get too upset about this. The best thing you can do for your parents is to show them your love and show that you care about them even if you can't help them financially. It is not the material things in life that matter but the love that matters the most...
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
hello, don't be upset, you have a kind heart, well as you said your income is low but there are other ways to show love to our parents besides money and material things, one way is to pay them a visit and check on their condition as often as possible if you live away from them. I think another way is drop by or if you still live with them is to help in house chores like cleaning, cooking, washing dishes or watering plants for them etc... good luck and God bless you
• China
23 Feb 12
Fistly, I really appreciate your kindness and filial piety; Secondly, children are parents' crystallization of love, and their healthy growth cannot be separated from parents' care and love. Therefore, what you can do is to give more love and care to them, call them often. Since you cannot give material support, you shall focus on much spiritual support.