Being a shy???does it well be change???
By zykramo
@zykramo (9)
Philippines
February 23, 2012 6:15am CST
Being a shy person is not suitable in this world thus i hear it many times...how it can be change when no one can change it to you???
9 responses
@Piloncitos (305)
• Philippines
27 Feb 12
Nothing is permanent in this world except change. You need to have the will to change if you want to get out from your own shell.
@Piloncitos (305)
• Philippines
28 Feb 12
It does not depend on a person "to become" confident. You got to have the inner will to change and turn away from your being so shy. You got to have the inner drive and it needs to come from within yourself. Even if your loved ones or your parents are so confident about you and they will tell you that you can actually conquer the world, you will still be hiding inside your own shell if you choose not to change your views about your own self. If you have issues in the past which led to your being shy today, you must and you got to face these issues! Come up with a solution to overcome them. Pray without ceasing! Unless you see yourself bigger than your present self, you will always be shy for the rest of your life.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
Shyness is always there with us in any aspect of life and in any ways it could be.I think the only one can change it is ourselves too.We should gain confidence and believe to ourselves to overcome the shyness.
@erjnsimon (1191)
• Makati, Philippines
25 Feb 12
if you want to change from being shy not to be shy. haha. for example, try to talk to somebody you just met on you place or just in the school or just in your work, fell comfortable with it. do it every time you interact with other people. i think interacting with others frequently will make somebody's shyness.
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
If no one teaches you, then the last choice will be yourself to teach yourself not to be shy, explore, share and listen. Be open minded. There is time to be shy, but too much is not good. People will take advantage and they will go more further than you think..
@TheIrishClog (985)
• Ireland
23 Feb 12
I used to be a very shy person, quiet as a mouse and afraid of my own shadow. I then discovered a talent for singing and pretty soon I forced myself to start singing at karaoke on nights out. I gradually became more confident and now have a lot more self confidence.
Quite often shy people are the most beautiful, talented and kind people that simply don't know those positive things about themselves and are afraid to put themselves out there. Perhaps reading some self help books might help. Friends are great for boosting confidence and getting over a shy persona.
@zykramo (9)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
That's amazing when your life is full of secret .maybe it is not matter to waste time for now as being shyness..we should still be strong and keep it always in heart where not struggle there life's but we care and ourselves...as for me even we have a little shyness in life were just still strong and don't be pretend as loser.
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@victorkrish (1614)
• Malaysia
24 Feb 12
The shyness can be remove by communication, which i try to say that if a person meet a unique different character person, he or she will automatically feel free to communicate with them . Definitely they will out of shy, this is a method of feel free to communicate. Mostly shy is come because they didn't make or obtain an opportunity to communicate with people. In fact a person who good communicator will be a strong opinion in voice out.
@sayo13 (414)
• India
23 Feb 12
well i believe that shyness is not a bar to anything in life except that it is in a limit.
I believe that girls should possess some shyness but that shyness should not be an obstacle in her career or life or in any other relationship. shyness is something that you yourself need to work out with enough determination and courage.
many a times we have to face a lot of embarrassed situation in life because of shyness , but do not let that weaken you or your confidence. Accept it as a challenge if you are in real need to work on your shyness. but in every sense it is also not advisable to be desperate always.
everything has its own pros and cons and to deal with your shyness you have to believe yourself first and to bring out the determination that will show you what is right and what is wrong for you.
Best wishes.
@woolscupiee (185)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
I'm used to be a shy guy years ago especially in dealing with people that I don't even know but now I overcome it. We need to put our shyness in the right place. If we are eaten by our shyness or being timid. We can't use it most of the time if we want to succeed in life. It's not bad that we feel that way but sometimes we need to let go of it. I think other people can hep someone in overcoming this feelings. Sometimes, open communication with our friends and newly acquired friends can help us learn to put our shyness in the right pace.