I cant get it out of my Head

I believe when someone you really care about cheats on you, you never really get over it as it takes the trust out of you, I learnt this the hard way, people say that not everyone is the same but it is always there, if one person can do it then anyone is capable so it steals your trust, it has nothing to do with you Noreen, it is just so common today, I think it is just a weakness in human nature, but you seem to have the right attitude, I wish I could be like you.

I understand your plight. It is not easy forgetting someone you loved even if he has cheated you. Your mind says that he does not deserve you but your heart says otherwise. It is difficult when you give your love and this is not treasured. I am in the same situation like you at the moment. I can't force myself to get angry. I just let him go on with his life. Maybe in due time, we will forget the pain and disappointment. Move on with your life no matter how difficult it is.

Wow, really?you're not mad.. the thing that you are feeling is so odd, because the initial reaction of a girl who has been cheated with her boyfriend is to get mad, specially if you're in a relationship for 4 years. being in that situation I think requires a lot of time moving on, maybe as of now you are not experiencing anger but eventually as time passes and you'll get to realize that you are alone you'll get mad.. You cannot easily forget the 4 year relationship and feeling won't go away that soon.. but time heal all those wounds and I hope it will just be patient.

I guess it's normal to feel like that considering you've been together for 4 years. It's not a short amount of time and you have been through a lot. But he cheated on you, that's fact. Part of you still hoping he will change and might consider giving him a second chance. Human emotion is truly hard to control. But you need to be firm on your decision.