I know someone who rants and whines all the time..

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Are you the type of person who always whines about pretty much everything and everyone around you. I am not a perfect person but I just think that this person is seriously so into other people and it's like it's her lifeline. She doesn't care who she talks to if you are close or not, as long as she can vent out what she hates about things around her especially people around her then she will. Sometimes even though you don't know who she is talking about she will still tell you about the things she hates about them even you are obviously not interested or even you don't know the person she is talking about personally. She always tell me that she is a nice and kind person but she jus can't deal with these kind of people and they are getting into her nerves. She is like a person who doesn't look at her own mistakes and attitude when she see other people. She feels so higly of herself when in fact I guess she is worst because she is double faced person, she acts so civil and so friendly when these people are around and when they are gone, she talks behind their back. This is the main reason we had a big fight before because she was talking behind my back and that gossip she made became very sensational to all ther relatives, her friends and everyone else in the neighborhood. I just suddenly noticed that everyone was so indifferent towards me and I begun hearing things about what people thinks about me. I was so furious that time cause i trust this person and I didn't expect people who you thought are nice to you would actually talk bad about you behind your back. I guess that is not just nice at all. That was really a big fight and then we didn't talk for a long time. Then we started talking again because we are just always in one circle familiar people so we can'treally end up the relationship that long. And so we talked and finally able to fix things between us. Even though we are okay now, I had lost the trust and faith I gave her a long time ago. Now I still like to talk to her about different stuff, sometimes personal stuff, but the trust isn't there anymore. There's always gonna be this doubt that she might tell it to other people or she might take things in different way. So, I started being careful when I around her. I don't trust her that much anymore there is this gap and I won't be able to remove that since i think she is still the same person. She still does it with other people, people who are even her relatives and even her own brothers... How much more to someone who is not even related to her by blood and who is completely different with her when it comes to her opinions, tastes, preferences and attitude. She is really different from the people I really call "close and best friends". She is always gonna be this person whom you talk to and have fun with but will never be able to see you out from your comfort zone. Never again. How about you guys, have you had the same situation as me? Have you ad a friend or maybe a relative who does this to other people. Who thinks they are perfect and the other people around aren't? Who you are scared of talking about what you personally think about things because they have this talent of script writing and making up stories to make your life more interesting and controversial to other people?