He Wasn't There When I Woke Up

Ireland
February 25, 2012 6:12pm CST
My other half works as a door supervisor (bouncer), so he does late nights and sometimes isn't home until as late as 4am, but usually by 3am. Some time back, on a Saturday night, he went to work as normal, I hit the hay at around 11pm as I was quite tired (I don't generally tend to wait up unless there's some quality TV showing, which is rare!) and fell asleep right away. Some time later I rolled over to snuggle up to my man, only to wake with a jolt to find that he wasn't there. It was starting to get bright outside, I looked at the clock, it was 6am, I FREAKED completely out. I looked out the window, the van wasn't in the driveway. I picked up my phone and rang him - it rang 4-5 times before he answered 'hello'... I burst into tears 'thank God you're alive!'. It turned out that he got called to go to another job straight after his regular job as they needed some extra help with security at an event that was going on really late (or early whatever way you see it). I had been so worried as his job can be quite dangerous and he also has to drive 20 miles to get home on a fairly dangerous road, as far as I was concerned he was in a ditch somewhere or had been stabbed at work. Have you ever woken with a jolt to find your partner wasn't there and panicked? Have you ever seriously over-worried in a situation and everything was nowhere near as bad as you first thought?
3 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Feb 12
You are from Ireland. -- a place that is cold most part of the year? You had worried situation because of your extreme love for your better half and that is good. Normally parents panick when children do not return from school or college or work even after the lapse three or four hours after the regular time. same thing applies in the case of a wife --she starts worrying too much for her husband's return--in your case he has not returned by 3 am his normal time. it is right to be worried. always pray and believe good things shall happen. Repeately tell within your "all is well; all is well" --thing will improve
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• Ireland
26 Feb 12
Thank you for your repsonse ravisivan. It is indeed quite cool for most of the year, but we do get a week or two of summer most years :) The mantra "all is well" is definitely one I could do with repeating at times! Thank you.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Feb 12
The Irish: Yes. Take a deep breath. Say within yourself everything will become fine soon. Take you right hand and put them on your hear/right shoulders and say "all is well; all is well: " three times. You will find things improving steadily. let me add"ALL IS WELL "
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Feb 12
see this link: This is a comedy movie--Hindi-- "three Idiots" -- listen to the son where they sing "All is well". http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbNUpQvabgc&feature=related it will be interesting to listen. you may not follow the language.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Feb 12
I bet that was a terrible surprise to wake up like that. I would be worried too. I am an over worrier sometimes and have freaked out before when someone in the family wasn't where they were supposed to be at a certain time. There was usually a good excuse and I often even had a phone call or a message that explained everything had I taken the time to check that before freaking out first
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• Ireland
26 Feb 12
It really was Jen. I do worry about family at times as well, even those I don't live with, if I'm meeting up with them and they're not there, or if the roads are slippy and my mother doesn't show up at work on time (we work in the same office).
• United States
15 Mar 12
glad that ended well! I've often worried even when someone is just a little bit late (even though I've tended toward being late). It's amazing what freakish scenarios your mind can conjure up. That's why I often set my reminders for 30 minutes before appointments, etc. :-)