The simple way to freedom(to get out from pressure)

i always feel to all my friends around me NOTHING IS MINE.. i only have my family , no more. I just relax myself. alone in park. sight seeing.. its a light feeling.. :)

Yes, we can say this words in our hearts, "NOTHING IS MINE , ALL IS WELL". But what do you really mean by that anyway? Your family or friends are not really yours to keep but then we certainly value their presence and love them as our own, right? People do have different attitudes and we just have to deal with it. If they are in wrong ways, we try to talk to them to be in the right way. But then, with friends, we can't say that all of them were true to us. Some will past and go, true friends will remain. But then again, friends you have today doesn't mean will stay that long with you. Sometimes distance makes your relationship fall apart. It's just how you really value them in your hearts. How can you say, all is well?

this statement "NOTHING IS MINE, ALL IS WELL" seems sort of defetist to me.

Hi there rameschow, I think you are right, there are just somethings in life that change, sometimes you think that you know a person then the next you dont, they change and becomes indifferent to you. But life is just like that friends leave, children grow old and people change. Change is good it means people grow up but if friendships are lost then i guess change in that manner is a little akward for me.

Hello friend! You tried to call up he/ she by this process? I dont think so. some moment and someone which can not forgot you in your whole life. This process may be working for those who does'nt love anyone by heart. Fall in love and try to call up him/ her?

Hello friend! You tried to call up he/ she by this process? I dont think so. some moment and someone which can not forgot you in your whole life. This process may be working for those who does'nt love anyone by heart. Fall in love and try to call up him/ her?

It does help us be less anxious if we turn loose of the needs to obsess about things that we feel are wrong. If we hold on to pain it only hurts us.

hi friend.........what you have said is right and if we will try we can overcome all kinds of problems and worries.BUT.......there is one kind of problems which has no solution and you can never come out of it........and that is worrying about your children.......The day you become parent (specially mother).....a never ending relationship between you and worries for your children start, and this will end only when parents will die.......because no matter how big your child is .....for you your child is still a baby....and you can never come out of this pressure.....this is what is my view about your simple way of freedom....For those who are not parents this will be a bit difficult to understand...but they will understand in future when they will become parents.

i have write here about owning my life because i am feeling that i really don't own my life right now. i am bound with time, pressures and stress in my work. i feel like the only way i can be free of is to quit my job and do what i really enjoys the most. but again is not that easy because i need the work for financial reasons. and so i pray to God for His guidance and to help me out with my problems. people around added pressures to us especially if they thinking like a crab so i agree with you. and yes, i cannot own my life but i want to experience the freedom a child has.

One problem that most of us have is our financial problem. This is something that takes away our freedom. Freedom to be with our loved ones. Freedom to buy the things we want. Freedom to do the things we want to do. But like all problems, our financial problem also has a solution. We just have to seek for it. As the saying goes, "The world will conspire to give you what you need."

Yeah, the thing about life is enjoying it while not getting attached to anything. Sure, we get hurt once in a while, but the important thing is we know how to stand again.

i have a closed friend when i was in high school ,so closed ,like sisters. but suddenly she left and lie to me with no reason or even excuses. why people always get hurt from someone who u loved and really care about. say'nothing is mine,all is well' doesnt work,,,,,,,,,,,,,555555555555