Bottom Line,. do not lie now, do looks matter?

Hi Capola, How to tell how ugly is? Well, ugly for me might be different from your version of ugly. Take the time to know the ugly people? Hmm.. yeah. I think so. As long as he has nice aura. Lol. Because sometimes when we are being alone with let say the pretty guy or girl, you just cannot talk to them. Like you don't have anything to tell them. But when you meet other standard looking people, or maybe the ugly one, somehow, you can chit chatting for hours. Maybe this is what people called chemistry. So, no matter how ugly that person is, as long as he makes me feel comfortable to chat with him, I will get to know him better. :) As we grow older, we will know that it is important not to judge people by their appearances. :)

I honestly don't want to hang out with very ugly people. I don't hate them. It's just that dating them would give them false hope. I don't want to be caught in this kind of situation in the future. I wouldn't mind getting to know an ugly person. As friends, it's okay. But romantically, no. Really ugly people are people with terrible personalities, mean, a bully, etc.

I would consider dating an ugly person. Looks really aren't that important to me. If the person is kind hearted and treats me kindly, that is what matters to me. Yes there are people who may be unattractive on the outside but who are truly beautiful people on the inside. So for me looks aren't that big of deal. After all we all get older, and our looks fade so I would rather be with someone who really cares about me than worry about what they look like.

Honestly, I don't go for ugly persons, specifically the males...I am choosy but I am not yummy, that's the truth. I don't know why but even when i was younger, high school days, some men courted me but I rejected them for the reason that they are not as good looking as I prefer someone to be. But once in my life, I fell with someone that is ugly on the typical ugly meaning. It was because we started as friends so we got along well and he is funny, makes me smile, witty, smart and intelligent. In the long run, I see him more of a charming guy rather than a guy with an ugly face. But still, am hard to please when it comes to look, guess why I am still single. Not a lot of good looking men court me when I prefer them. A lot of ugly men court me when I do not prefer them lol. Bottom line, I don't think it is a sin to set your standards, like choosing good looking people. You are only being true with yourself and most prefer looks first. ;-)

To be honest, i percieve ugly people as ugly people. I guess it's natural for us to think like this because our eyes and mind looks for beauty and not ugliness. But after i learned a lesson about human behavior, no humans are actually ugly. They just need a little more observation in order to see their beautiful side. Although it's like that, i still look for someone who's beautiful at first sight. Hehe. How about you? How do you call a person ugly? What are your criterias? Well have a great day and happy mylotting.

Of course looks matters!!! But beauty is relative, what is beautiful for me, maybe its not for you!! I will never get in a relationship with a girl i think is ugly!! But if i think she is beautiful.. i don't care what others think of her! I like to think that way because even if i do not follow the current standards of beauty i can be beautiful to someone too.

It is true that a person you perceive as being ugly is harder to be around. But everyone has a different idea of what ugly is. So, just because you see them as ugly does not mean I will see them as ugly. I don't really want to be a beautiful person either. Try to look at the inside then the outside.

To answer the question of your "headline" - yeah, I'll be honest, looks matter. I have sequestered guys to the "friend zone" because they were not physically attractive to me. But then reading through your paragraph, with "ugly" in quotations, I started thinking about the people who may, or may not, be beautiful to look at... until they open their mouths to speak and then they become ugly. Perhaps they are racist or rude to servers in restaurants or kick puppies for fun. Then their appearance no longer matters so much.

there was this guy who courted me before and physically, he doesn't look good. and all my friends were like raising their eyebrows whenever he gets near me or we talk. but he is such a nice guy, intelligent in class and very kind. so when he asked me for a date, i agreed coz i feel guilty turning down his invitation since he is very good to me. but that's all there is to it, a single date and he accepted the idea of just being friends very nicely.

There's many people that going on a date with someone not because her/his physique. But because of her/his pretty personality. Because, I think that you can be pretty if your personality was beautiful.