Afraid of confessing
By leoifrah
@leoifrah (31)
Hong Kong
February 27, 2012 7:43am CST
I like this girl for over a year already but I never had the chance to tell her...I feel conflicted to tell her and its our last year so...
10 responses
@megalia (60)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 12
You have to try it man.. it's better for us to lose than never try right? who knows she likes you too.. and you two can be a good couple..
or maybe u can try to ask her for a date.. see whether she approve or reject it.. than u will know what is the answer if you confess your feeling to her..
@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
If you love this girl,then you shouldn't be afraid to take risks.You're the guy.It's ok for you to do so.You wouldn't want this opportunity to just slip away without you doing anything right?
@luvs2write (64)
• Philippines
28 Feb 12
I'm in this exact same situation right now and trust me when I say ti's frustrating not to know. I mean, I know the guy likes me and I like him back, but he hasn't confessed yet so nothing's happening between us.
I don't want what's happening to us to happen to you so I'm going to tell you everything I wish he would just do already. Just follow your instincts. If they tell you that you should tell her, don't let the rational side of your brain take over. Be impulsive and do what feels right rather than think about what's right. If you keep on over-thinking this situation of yours, you'll never get anywhere with the girl and your last year together's going to pass like a little breeze, just like in my situation.
Best of luck! :)
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
27 Feb 12
What do you have to loose? I think it's nothing since she is not your gf or lover. So you can only win if you give it a change. If not then be satisfied with the fact you lost and go on with your life. If you really want there is always a way/chance to tell her.
@nicola531 (43)
• Italy
27 Feb 12
you've never had I chance to tell her probably because you've never found to make the situation happend....
You've got one possibility and your entire life to tell yourself that you've should have done it..
Even one on a million is good enough to risk (and risk what anyhow)
If you think the risk to take in comparison of the great benefit that can come out of it, you'll get the answer.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
27 Feb 12
Are you kidding? Sorry, you must be introverted. If you don't act on your instincts you'll never know! Nothing ventured, nothing gained, "It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. And all that stuff.
@sayo13 (414)
• India
27 Feb 12
I konw how you are feeling and how much you are scared of confessing. This seems the toughest challenge for most of the lovers as they always think of the consequences if he get rejected and if he is misunderstood.Many a times we need to make hard decisions and also accept the consequences so better go for it no matter what happens and what she think. Its now or never. so be a little bit bold and gather the courage to make her understand your love and feelings for her.
Love should better be expressed or else it cause too much pain.you need to plan and make the ambience suitable enough to propose her and tell her your feelings and affection about her.
All The best!!
@Cranos (273)
• Belgium
27 Feb 12
So would you say you are in the friend zone? If that's the case, maybe telling her isn't the best idea. Most likely you'll get rejected or even drive her away. (again assuming you're in the friend zone)
If you two don't know each other well, why don't you just try to ask her on a date?