Do you wish that after every meal the dishes would get done on it's own?

@beenice2 (2967)
Sackville, New Brunswick
February 29, 2012 4:46pm CST
Well for you out there that has kids that hate doing the dishes to help their parents in the house, do you think that if there was a bit of a vacation on that !!!! dishes. Yes I feel lazy on an off, of course like anyone that feel a bit beat.
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@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
29 Feb 12
yes, i wish maid robot like in i-robot movie was real so we can tell the robot to do all those things and we can be relax after we eat our meal.
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@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
29 Feb 12
If wish my kids could be that kind of robot so I don't always have to repeat them that the dishes is beginning to grow some hear you know. Real robot would be costly .But I tell you it would good to have one yes.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
1 Mar 12
Washing dishes is like in the top 3 house choirs I hate doing. If only they would get done on it's own, as you have said, then the world could be a much happier place.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
2 Mar 12
It's also the number problem at home. the sink can get so loaded and when it becomes so unsightly the more lazy I feel about starting to wash and clean it. My dad would always get mad about this. The task seem so simple yet so much. It's actually funny how a fight can start over just some unwashed dishes, and this usually happens in our place.
@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
2 Mar 12
Yes it does have so much potential to bring a lot of division in a family just because of dishes .
@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
1 Mar 12
It is amazing how that dishes can be a kill joy so much. My children if they can postpone of doing that dishes they can wait for weeks and I like to see my counter, where it is and being able to cook on it so I break down and do some as much as I can because it become so absurd to leave it like that, on top the little help that finally I can have from them, but anyway, it become a subject of argument at home some days.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
1 Mar 12
Yup! That would be lovely if someone showed up just in time to help out...I live by myself so I try not to make too many dishes! LOL.....I eat out of containers alot as I cook up a big meal then freeze extras just to heat up when I don't feel like cooking!
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@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
1 Mar 12
I know, even if you live alone you still have to wash that dishes that is nobody else but yours. Not to make you guilty of the process about doing the dishes, sometime I feel like it is like an illness that is chronic on its own. Not to give up.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
1 Mar 12
UH - YES! I just finished doing the dishes, about 3 days worth. We dont' even COOK all that much and yet we accrue tons and tons of dishes and of course I'm usually the only one who actually does them...I don't mind, I love feeling like the house is getting clean and whatnot, I just get irritated that even though they are not MY dishes that I made, I still end up washing them. Agh.
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@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
1 Mar 12
It is so funny to see that from one corner of the earth to the other everyone of us understand about that dishes dilemma, it is coming back at us everyday, no matter what kind of dishes and utensils we own the dilemma is the same for all of us , lets not give up so the kitchen beast can't win.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
I usually don't mind doing the dishes but it's true that there are times wherein you really just want those dishes to get cleaned by themselves especially after having a really great and sumptuous meal. And this goes true whether you're the parent or the child. We don't have a dishwasher so we do the dishes the traditional way, and that can really be such a drag at times.
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@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
1 Mar 12
I think we have to accept to be the dishwasher no matter what. So we have to really bear it and do it right, O.K today I had a little bit of help on that dishes but it doesn't come easy you know.
• Canada
1 Mar 12
Most of the tie I don't mind doing dishes since it has become a part of our daily routine so I don't think muuch about it but there are certainly days when I feel that I wouldn't have to do the dishes. y child is too small to do them so I wish the dishes would get done magically as in Harry Potter movie or by a robot...
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@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
1 Mar 12
When my children were younger, I was blessed with one and boy did I appreciate it, it made a difference but as it is when you think your kids can help when they are older, for them the dishes, they all trying to avoid it like the pest. Not to be negative,there is some time that they give me lots of help.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
29 Feb 12
Oh washing dishes is one thing I really hate, I think not having much bench space makes it a real chore, but even though I hate washing dishes so much I still would never have a dish washer.
@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
1 Mar 12
We don't have a dishwasher, wish I had but here where we live we can't have one it is not set for it. We have to clean it by hand everyday. Not to worry dishes is there to stay.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
5 Mar 12
Yes, I do wish that the dishes would simply get done on their own. I really don't like having to the dishes.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
1 Mar 12
If you don't have a maid then of course they must really do the dishes. Tell them to clean their own plate after eating because you can't make it all the time. Now if they are stubborn enough to make it then don't do something that is in favor of them.
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
1 Mar 12
AMEN to that! I am married and also have a grown son. Son will always put dishes in the sink. Hubby gets home and once his butt is parked in his recliner forget it unless it pertains to the eating of food! I had 5 children and have basically been cook and bottlewasher all my life. I was an only child, and guess who did the dishes growing up? So even though a dishwasher is a luxury the dishes sure don't jump in there themselves. I am learning with age to do what I can and do what I don't feel like for later. Some days I feel really good and get everything done other days I feel exhausted and don't do so much. Good Luck to you at your home!
@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
1 Mar 12
It is so encouraging to read you because I can relate to. We were 5 kids at home and we had our turn to do it,once my brothers grew older and had jobs well me and my sister were the only one to do it so it thought me how to work and not drag on the job. I don't hate the job there is some days I feel to clean the whole thing when the energy is there, we all have some ups and some more tiring time, but I know that at least we have always something to do, and to not get bored if nothing to do.
@laura1991 (177)
2 Mar 12
yes i do. and everyday you wash the dishes, tidy the home, wash the clothes and the next day its all back to how it was before, so you have to do it again. its a never ending battle.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
1 Mar 12
I hate cooking. So I much prefer to do the dishes to help out when my spouse is cooking. We do expect our kids to at least clean their own dishes after every meal.
• United States
1 Mar 12
my kids are just little and cant do the dishes yet but they already do not want to clean their room so i know its coming lol. i would love for dinner to b done and me to be able to tell that little robot to do the dishes cuz that is the worst part of the mean and sometimes it just doesnt always get done :(
• Austin, Texas
24 Feb 17
I used to watch those old TV shows like "Bewitched" and "I Dream of Jeanie". I used to wish I had magical powers to blink and the dishes would get cleaned.
@pudgeftw (99)
• United States
1 Mar 12
For the most part, I think it would be quite convenient for the dishes to just magically clean up on their own, but other than that, I actually like doing them! I know it sounds a bit weird, but I think it stems from the fact that I used to do the dishes with my dad every day after dinner, so for me it is a very nostalgic experience that I don't really want to miss out on. In addition, as many people have mentioned, I love having a clean kitchen, so even if I don't feel like doing them, it is usually a pet peeve to just leave them sitting in the sink with food scraps all over them. One thing I have learned to do is to actually do the dishes as I go along with my cooking. So for instance, whenever I use a pan (to fry onions or simmer a sauce or whatever), I start washing it while the rest of the meal is still cooking. Any opportunity of idle time when I'm making dinner I like to put towards keeping the kitchen clean. Because of this, I'll often finish dinner and there will be very few dishes left - maybe the plates and silverware along with the serving dish. This is a great way to keep ahead of yourself I think, and I've already set aside time to do cooking, so for me it's just part of the cooking experience!
@koopharper (7601)
• Canada
1 Mar 12
I'm beenice2's husband. Dare I stick my head out of the safety of my foxhole on this? I rarely help with the dishes. I did tons of them growing up being one of eight children. We do have five children who should be doing the bulk of them. In my personal defense I'm only actually home for one meal each day during the week and that's breakfast before anyone else is out of bed. I work long hours. I know what you're thinking. GET OFF THE COMPUTER!!! Stop commenting here! Get off your lazy butt and go help beenice2 with the dishes already!