Your definition of love!

u dont have to have a meaning to know love... or u dont have to know love to have its meaning... its plain n simple love is love nothing more n nothing less.... it doenst mean u have to fight always to know love that ridiculous... it doesnt mean that u have to be happy n gay n smile n laugh to know that u are inlove i doesnt have to mean u need to get hurt or compromise to give love or it doesnt have to be all about this n that to know love.... love is just love... but when a person never did experience love then he is not living life at all... love is love and when u love i live n when u live that when u start to see life as what it is... it is love.. :D all things accounted for... it depends on everybodies unique experience about love that give its meaning... :D so.. if u say u love a person that its good! coz in a way.. u are giving love its meaning but in ur own unique way... :D

I believe in communication and comprehension. Sometimes all couples will have fights, but we need to know how to deal with this things. For me, the way you resolve your differences will show how long your relationship will last. When two people agree in almost everything, a little difference can become a big problem for them, because they can not know how to deal with this. Some couples fight a lot, but in the end they understand the point of each other and get a reasonable solution and they can be very happy. As we say: "The similar things will make you to like someone, but are the differences who will say if you love him.". We need different ideas and thoughts and we need to change ours sometimes to grow up.Happy mylotting.

Just goes to show that its different for different people....for me its sharing common interests so that you have lots to talk about..when the spark gets a little dull you will need tons of things to talk about...and as you grow old sharing your interests....but love is also sticking by one another...no matter what.

Love is having an honest relationship where there are very few differences. When the two people have too many differences, they tend to focus on those and clash over them rather than being able to agree on most everything and move forward. My husband and I are so much alike it's almost scary, but I love that! He just gets it, and I don't have explain to him why I am the way I am because he's the same way. I don't know how your friend can see it the opposite way. They say "opposites attract," but I don't think that's true most of the time. There are some areas in the relationship where people should be different, but most of the time if they don't agree it can become a real problem. Love doesn't mean compromise. Compromise, to me, means that you're with someone you have nothing in common with, so you compromise to stay together and force the relationship to work. I'm glad my hubby didn't compromise when he found me. He got to know me for who I am, and I don't have to be someone different around him just so he'll stay with me. I'm glad he loves me for who I am! Love also thrives on communication. How can you have a relationship with someone you never share things with? I'm still learning things about my husband, and I enjoy that. When we're open and honest with each other, we have the best time. I agree with you - I couldn't stay with someone if we fought all the time. That would only tell me that we are too different and can't make it work. Yes, if the definition of love is the same, they'll stay together forever!

Well, there is no such thing as perfection. Now that that is out of the way, I do know that not everyone will see things the same way all the time. If someone was to agree with you all the time, would mean that that person is more of a lame sap. Everyone has their own opinions and that is a good thing. Lets ay you decide you want to go out for dinner, and you want italian food. Your partner says, well I don't mind going to dinner, but I would rather have chinese. Thats where a compromise comes in. It is not a major issue nor is it life threatening. My definition of love is unconditional. Meaning what ever I do or she does, we love them the same no matter what. I think I see it like most people do.

Well...I think different persons define LOVE in different ways!! I have a friend, married from last 5 yrs. She does not want her husband to talk to his mother/sister. That friend tells that she feels like her LOVE is being shared with her mom in law and sis in law...I dont understand how can she think in this way...This means for her LOVE is nothing but POSSESSIVENESS. For me LOVE is about understanding each other, committed to each other and off course caring for each other...

In my eyes, love is definitely not a compromise. But with love and understanding, each of the partners might compromise on certain aspects at different points of time. Maybe compromise is the wrong word to use since the partners do not think of it as compromising...more of adjusting since they love each other. I don't like fights and arguments either....I prefer discussions even when the partner might not agree with my view point.

My defination of love is quite different. My defination of love means honesty,communication,understadning,compromise and wanting to spend the rest of your life with that person! Love is also a very weird! It can blur your judgement. Make you act stupid. It can be the best feeling in the world and the worst feeling in the world! That is my defenition of love.

Hmm..as we all know,love is happiness and a feeling of fulfillment.Love is that "right" feeling you get when you are with someone,that want to be around them and you feel proud that you are with them.But,there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.Many people tend to not notice that and relationships don't last long anymore

In my opinion, love is overrated. It is a state of being, a fantasy based on fairy tales! There are no guarantees in life! Just because you "love" someone does not mean you will be with him/her for the rest of your life. People change with time. Nothing remains the same, change is inevitable. If the couple can adapt to the changes and communicate with each other, "love" endures. Try not to change each other and accept each other the way he/she is.

Hi there sarahruthbeth, I think compromise is one thing, yeah it is a part of love without compromise a lot of people would be alone. Not everybody is perfectly matched boys and girls even guys and guys and girls and girls. No one is so perfectly matched not to have compromise. And i guess true love means being with a person whom you couldn't live without.

I think my definition of love is a good friendship. If he/she wouldn't your a good friend then he/she don't your a good lover. My best friend in my lover. She share every problem,fun and every think with me. She communication understanding with me. I thing a good friendship is growth a love.

I think my definition of love is a good friendship. If he/she wouldn't your a good friend then he/she don't your a good lover. My best friend in my lover. She share every problem,fun and every think with me. She communication understanding with me. I thing a good friendship is growth a love.

hello friend i dont have girlfriend so i can not write about this thanks

I'm not one to want to have fights all the time either. Life is too short for that stuff. I think that definitions of love are basically the same...it is what we tolerate or want out of a relationship that differs.

uhm, there are many definitions of love... But here are some of my thoughts about love in a relationship, when you love someone you are willing to give chance to the other, more of your partner than to yourself, you cannot afford to hurt him/her physically or emotionally, you cannot afford to hurt her/his love ones. But you cannot tolerate if he or she is doing bad, correct him/her in a nice and loving way.. And always express it in words and actions...