Hi female , do you want to divorce?

Hi dilrajj. I don't want a divorce now, as I am widowed, and that is the way I will remain until my life changes to where I have time to spend with someone. My responsibilities in life right now keep me from having a social life. I am glad that we are allowed to get divorces here and can afford them if we want to do so. God does want some of us to part when the partner is committing adultery or being abusive.

About divorce, I have always disagree with such thing, I am single and if ever I'll indulge with marriage divorce would be my least option if ever problem comes in our way. I always believe that whatever GOD binds together only GOD can decide when to unchain those bonds. I also believe that a person should not take any commitment if they are not yet ready for it, because no matter what happens divorce will be their best option.

I love my husband and will love him until the day that I die because of the fact that he is the father of my children. For the most part, our marriage has been without a lot of difficult times. However, right now we are going through one of the most rocky times that we've had in our life. The reason for that is because he neglected to tell me something that was very important and then an accident happened that has put us at risk because of his decision. So, I think that the only reason that I could think of when I would want a divorce would be because I didn't have any trust for him anymore.

Yes I want a divorce, not for purposes of another marriage but to make the separation legal; however, divorce remains to be a dream for us in this country as we are the only country aside from the Vatican City who does not have a divorce law. There have been several bills introduced in Congress for a divorce bill but has been vehemently opposed by the religious groups. There are many instances where couples have to live-in with their partners since court and church annulment of marriage is very expensive and takes quite a while. If I continue on being legally married, the ex-husband remains to be the beneficiary in all my legal benefits and continues to have the share in conjugal properties which were the product of my hard work and not his. Do you get my point? I don't want him to enjoy the fruits of my years of hard labor.