dont waste your tears
By sanofer
@sanofer (525)
India
March 1, 2012 7:50pm CST
i really hate to see people who cry for someone who doesn't show care to them. they keep on going behind that relationship and they are hurting themselves.feeling pity for them. according to me love and care should be shared with someone who really deserves for it. don't waste your precious care on someone who doesn't even bother about that.
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@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
2 Mar 12
Hi sanofer! 
I don't know about that but I guess I couldn't say anything unless I have been to their shoes. I mean, have you ever really loved someone so deeply? What I know is that when you are hit by the love bug, you would go miles just to be with that person. So I guess it is only natural to cry when you get hurt especially by the one you truly love. What's important is to not let yourself dwell on that feeling. For me, feelings past. They always do.
Good day 
I don't know about that but I guess I couldn't say anything unless I have been to their shoes. I mean, have you ever really loved someone so deeply? What I know is that when you are hit by the love bug, you would go miles just to be with that person. So I guess it is only natural to cry when you get hurt especially by the one you truly love. What's important is to not let yourself dwell on that feeling. For me, feelings past. They always do.
Good day @sanofer (525)
• India
2 Mar 12
what you said is correct. tears are natural things and it is a human nature to cry if they are hurt. but it is really waste of time on thinking about someone who don't even care for us. if we sit on thinking about that person for a long time,we may fail to notice other people who really care for us. life is a test and we should ready to accept it results. life will be always well if we lead it in a correct way. we should make the person who left us to feel for us instead of sitting and crying. that is the spirit of life according to me
@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
3 Mar 12
That's a good point. We should stop crying if it has been going on for a long time now. There are people whom we should meet and perhaps they are better people compared to those who left us
@Glitznglitter (389)
• Canada
2 Mar 12
Absolutely! I agree with you 100%. If your not receiving the same love and devotion from someone that you are giving them, are they really worth your tears.
I think this goes for any type of relationship not just the romantic involvement ones. Friends, family, co-workers, why subject yourself to disrespect. Move on and find someone who can give you the respect you deserve.
Good Topic.
@sanofer (525)
• India
3 Mar 12
yes. we are not asking 100 percent love from the other person. they are not even ready to give half of the love we show. that relationship will ruin our future only. as you said love is not only the romantic involvements. it includes family,friends and co-workers. if we don't get the love from them it is waste of time thinking about them and crying. it is better to leave them and start our own beautiful life.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Mar 12
sanofer-welcome to mylot. The topic "cried" made me take interest in this discussion.
You are right--we should not cry for someone who doesn't care about us. We should love others and also learn to be without them. I am old and I think from that angle that children should show love and affection and at the same time learn to be without the help of parents/elders.
In the case of youngsters -- it is not advisable to spend time thinking about a person who is not showing love
@sanofer (525)
• India
2 Mar 12
thank you ravisivan sir:). nowadays youngsters are losing their life in the name of love and relationship. its really awful to see our youngsters who are the future leaders draining themselves in the sea of love and relationship. nowadays days are running fast and we should be fast enough to achieve our goals.
love between parent and kid is the best love. if youngsters really want to fell in love,they should love their parents and take care of them.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 May 12
It's a good advice but you can't force someone to stop loving someone. But I do agree with you it's better to put all this energy, you put in crying, stalking someone and feel pity for yourself in yourself. Go pamper yourself, kick your own a.. and make the best out of your life. Might be you won't feel happy every day (but you were not with that partner who doesn't care about you either) but at least you have self respect, self esteem plus someone who really loves you and will always be there: this someone is you!
@oflollipopskies (41)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
Yeah, instead of wasting our tears to someone who isn't really worthy of our tears, we should preserve it to someone who are dear to us. Instead of loving and caring for one who don't want it we should give it to someone who's really worthy of it and we should cherish it.
@ladyhemingway (965)
• Philippines
15 May 12
I agree with you on this. I used to be a cry baby. Crying over someone who does not even deserve it. Now, as I mature and learn things about life, I only reserve my emotion to those who I know is truly worth it. I guess this made me look an ice princess to some, but I wouldn't apologize for this because this is one lesson that life and experiences has taught me.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
7 Mar 12
What you have said here is absolutely true. But at times it's not like that. You see I know I shouldn't cry for the one who doesn't deserve my tears but I can't stop. I have been there and no matter how strong you try to be, it's not like that. It is something that's beyond you and you're hopeless. I am so glad I'm over all this now and Im so glad I have worked my way out of it
