Forbidden Love

I try as much as possible not to let myself fall in love with any married man. This because I believe that what you do to others will eventually be done unto you.

I have never been in love with a married man but I know someone who is in love with a married man. Well, she is my friend but not really too close. Actually all us, her friends, advised her not to continue her relationship with the man but she is just a very hard headed person. She always gives us the reason that she loves him and she can't break up with him. We can not stop her so we just let her be. I just hope that one day she woke up and change her mind and separate with the guy.

That's really a big "NO" to me especially when the situation involves kids, I don't want to be a home wrecker, children will suffer most for the forbidden love. Others at first really don't want to put their selves in that situation but when they are being put in that situation they become weak and tend to fall for it.

falling in love is not the same as having an affair. You fall in love with the man ánd woman? So with both??????? I think if it's true love you will be together anyway no matter if you start a relationship or not. I also don't believe in ruining a whole family. If you fall in love with a married person, that person starts an other relationship with you, that person is wrong! Ask yourself this: if that person doesn't care about his/her partner/family would he care about you if you were the only one? Are you sure that person loves you or are you just that bit extra to make his/her life easier and will you be dumped as soon as you want a real realtionship/commitment? I would never ask that person to give up his/her family because of me but it would make me think if he/she would not do that. Many men have affairs, empty promises and in many cases they are not honest about their marriage/relationship at all. They just feel the need to have extra people to tell them how great and attractive they are. If they would really love you, they would end up their relationship first before starting a new one.