Be Bold, Be Beautiful, Be You!

Hi toni. It seems that you are again at Mylot. I have been missing you. Indeed, it would be better to be told that we are beautiful inside. But of course it would have been better if we are beautiful both inside and out. But to be told that we are beautiful inside, is already touching. It means people likes dealing with you and since it's innate you will always be beautiful. But being just beautiful physically, it has its expiration.

Hello toni, welcome back here in my lot. Just like Christine Aguillera's song said, we are truly beautiful in our own way. And there are many ways that we could be beautiful. We can beautiful physically and we can be beautiful inside. And it is true that we could feel satisfy if someone could say that we are beautiful physically, but I think it is more fulfilling if someone will acknowledge that we are beautiful inside for inside beauty is what contribute to our personality the most. Thanks for sharing your topic to us. And remember that we are beautiful (or handsome) everyday. God bless you.

Hi toni I remember a similar discussion from you earlier. And I still stand with what I replied on that - The physical beauty is just an eyewash, a thing that stays with you for a while (maybe use of cosmetics just lengthens its stay) but when it(he cosmetic one) is gone, you have more ugly skin. But the beauty of heart... this is permanent (at least more long lasting - because it too gets scarred at times when we encounter situations which have a deep impact on our tender hearts) but still, more of it remains. This is different fact that people always go by looks and dont wait to see the beauty of the heart is you have a ugly or more repulsive look. But there are still a few who dont bother about physical looks and look into the heart and its innocence or beauty

Well I'm fully agree with your idea. From what can you see me in the photo at left, I am certainly not a handsome man physically, but as you point out, no one should judge me as I am done "outside". Inside me there is a personality, a morality that should be anyway respected. There are many people whose beauty immediately obvious, but we know nothing of their inner state. I seem to have made ??the idea,

I agree with you 100% :) I mean the outer beauty is only for sometime and after the limited time is up, the beauty goes away. But inner beauty is forever. There are those kinds of people though, who only look at other's outer beauty and not care about how beautiful they might be from inside. It's sad coz they are missing out on a lot!

So true! Its ok to look good but what really matters is who we are. People maybe initially attracted to you by physical attritutes but it can change once they get to know you better. Then from there they will create and impression and opinion of you. It is better to be comfortable with our own skin. Because when we are comfortable we will never be afraid of other people's judgement. And by doing so we will also find people you will genuinely stick to us thruogh thick and thin because they like and know who we really are.

I am not really comfortable with compliments either but like you I like to be thought of a beautiful person inside, that is something to be proud of I think.

i am pretty much my own person and wear what i want and dress fairly creatively. i think comfidence is pretty big when it comes to beautiful and you are right, beauty is on the inside for sure!

Me too. I feel not comfortable when I'm praised physically but I have to remind myself that I'm lucky because at least others appreciate our beauty. We just have to be confident about ourselves, inside and out.

I am not pretty but I have a lot of friends maybe because they like what is within me. For me appearance will fade but a good & caring heart will always be an endless beauty.

Physical beauty gives people a direct feeling and first impression. It simply makes others stay with you willingly. However, as time goes on the inside beauty is more and more important making you abtractive. What people treasure is inside beauty not outside.

being bold is beautiful? somewhat confusing like what you mean from being bold. It can have two meanings, either you can be asking to be bold in your approach towards some thing or just boldness in our looks and personality to impress others. please clarify

LOVE THIS DISCUSSION! i completely agree toni! you go girl! you are wonderful, and kind and unique! although it doesn't hurt that you are gorgeous on the outside too though haha :)

Definately have to agree with you there. As long as your being yourself people will see the inner beauty you hold within and in time they notice how beautiful you are on the outside as well. Not everyone is going to be flawless but there are those who come across so beautiful because they are themselves and not pretending to be someone they aren't