Angered Over Non-paying Debtors

People who borrow money all the time and not able to pay it, shold be ashamed of themselves. I have several in my list who borrowed money from me and never returned it. One was a trainer in a call center, it has been 1 year and 3months she still hasn't paid. Whenever I ask her, she would always have an aliby. It just gets more upsetting when you see their facebook updates and photos in a beach somewhere having a good vacation.

That is why lending money is quite a hassle- s it is easier to just give it sometimes, as long as it's not a big amount. If there is no contract or anything, I don't think people would be repaying the money they lent- only few repay very quickly... I just ope you get paid soon.

I think there are always people who spend their money poorly (I should know, I'm one of them! LOL) but there are always ways that person can MAKE MORE MONEY or cut back in something to start at least getting a head start on that debt. Is it a debt to you personally or what? If it's not, I would just let her worry about it. I mean, it's not like you're losing money (or sleep) over it. Happy MyLotting!

I would be angry also if someone owed me money and did not pay me back. I can understand if it was not pay day, but since it was pay day she should have paid you. I hate when people do not pay off their debts. She should have been honest with you and said as much as I would love to pay you, but something came up. You are being patient, but I know one can only take so much.

She could be a chronic spender or something. I mean if you tried to take her to court then you would have to show proof of lending the money to her. Some people are terrible with money and don't take things that seriously. The best way of lending money is usually through legal contract sadly. For me, when I lend people money, IF I lend them money... I don't expect it back. If I get the money back then I am happy and more than likely willing to help them out again. If I don't then I am less likely to lend them money when I have it. After all lending someone money is a huge risk even if you are very close to the person and unlike banks most people aren't running credit checks. There is nothing wrong with being angry and upset especially if someone says they will pay back their debts but then suddenly can't.

Do you have anything in writing showing that this is a loan that you have given to this friend that owes you money. I ask because if you have something solid as evidence the money that was given to you is in fact a loan why not approach your court system and file a small claims court claim. This will only work however if you have solid proof it won't work if its your word against theirs. Money is the root of evil especially between family and friends, it's not something I participate in if I can't get it from a bank, then I obviously can't pay it back. I wish you success in retrieving your money.

you do have the right to be angry and upset with the person. maybe she is short on money at the moment with bills but in saying that she should still try to compromise and pay you atleast something even if it is half of what her small repayments are. you may just need to say to her that you need some money as you are also short of money... its really hard situation to be in really