Why my partner afraid of spider?

Philippines
March 4, 2012 8:47pm CST
I love my partner so much I didn't know that his afraid of spider. One time I saw a big spider in his van and i told him, that time instead using that van he much stayed our house he said he never drive that car if I not remove the spider I ask him why me? why not you? no choice instead going out I change my clothes and get the broom I opened the van but he didn't help me . And i said a big fat men afraid on a spider but I still love him.
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4 responses
5 Mar 12
actually spider my be poising , you should be aware of that
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
You can't just unloved a person because he is afraid of the spider. I don't think it is a minus of him in your relationship. It is good that you are informed about the matter. Every person has a certain phobia and that's his.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
It might be some kind of phobia - arachnophobia to be specific. It's really hard to do something about phobias. Sometimes people even consult specialist just to help them overcome their fears. I myself have a fear of snakes no matter what size they are. I try to put a brave face each time we see one but deep down my knees seems to be buckling under the fear.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
5 Mar 12
My 18-year-old son ran away when he sees a snail. His younger brother teases him saying 'no matter how fast that snail goes, it'll never catches you, why do you have to run?' I guess you can't help feeling afraid of something; even though rationally as an adult you should not be. In my son's case he is probably feeling more squirmy than afraid.