I dont like the way you laugh
By Graceekwenx
@Graceekwenx (3160)
Philippines
March 4, 2012 11:00pm CST
Friends... I dont know if it is just me... but one of the major things that turns me off on a woman is the way she laughs. No matter how nice and classy or beautiful a woman can get but if she gives out boisterous laughter, i kind of find it irksome eeewwwrrr...
I am definitely not a perfect person but if i was a guy, i would be curious to hear how an attractive woman laughs. If she gives out such a big mouth laughing, eeewwwrrr... off you go on my list.
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17 responses
@fabsprecious (1565)
• United States
23 Mar 12
Funny you should mention this, we used to have a guy friend, which let me tell was extremely handsome, but when he laughed it was like the biggest turn off. Though we didn't mind because personally I didn't see him that way, but when he laughed it was so loud and some of the times you could even hear him snorting. One time we all went on dates together and a friend of ours had introduced him to this girl and during that night I guess we had a bit much to drink he started having one of those laugh attacks and of course the snorting started, the girl he was with looked at him and we knew that was it for the rest of the night, poor guy, we felt so bad, but he really didn't care anyways.
But I know what you mean that sometimes a persons laugh can be unattractive.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
I don't actually find it annoying when I hear a pretty lady giving out a boisterous laugh... It is just alright with me as these type of women are able to turn a boring day into a funny and lively one.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
My friends always tell me that they don't trust my smile. I don't know why but they tell me that it's as if I have something on my mind when they see me smiling. My best friend in high school even wrote on our year book that she loves me but doesn't really trust my smile. I know what you mean with classy women who laugh like a donkey. I haven't come across such women and I hope that I don't.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Yeah, maybe for some they may act the same thing as you do. I don't mean to offend but for me, it's different. We may have some friends male or female who may laugh not acceptable to others but if he/she is a friend of mine I don't think it would turns me off. He/she became my friend for what she/he is, not the way she laughs but because of his/her character.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
6 Mar 12
It just depends on how the person or a woman handle her laughter. There are woman that could be also fine by me as long as she knows how to carry it. But then if that is too much then I myself would turn off as well.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
well, me too it irritates me when i hear someone or a woman laugh so loud and boisterous..that can be an annoying factor for me on any person. my family always tunes in to this radio station and i hate to hear that lady DJ over there that constantly laughs from time to time and hearing her laugh really annoys me.there is something about it that sounds offensive, boisterous, loud, and nasty at the same time..really irritating..her laugh ruins my day when i hear it so would not want to listen to that radio station..maybe it is just me i don;t know about the other listeners..
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
5 Mar 12
I agree with you, some ladies are neglecting the desired manners. Although time is changing, in certain culture or community, people may behave as they wish, it is still something to bear in mind, do not do what unplease most of your neighbors, not only with regard of laughing, but a lot of other things.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
5 Mar 12
its not proper to feel ill or hate the way a person looks or behaves. we are all unique in every sense. So we all are endowed with our own unique mannerisms.when it comes to laughter i am one amongst those who would prefer to let go off it in full blast irrespective of what my neighbor things. there is no better stress reliever than a good, loud laughter
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
i do agree laughter is the best medicine, lol. Laughter can be contagious whether it is "eewww" or a simple sneaking laugh, but the best part is appreciating the humor and enjoying the moment and not minding other's people laugh. Laughter, the louder the better, lol!
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
Lol! Well i'm with you. I'm laughing because i thought i'm the only one bothered by some women who has this loud laugh that i think would just turn me off if i were a guy. In my case it's not only the laugh but also the way a woman speaks. If she speaks too loud and has this shrilling voice, that would totally turn me off.
I have a neighbor who's very loud and her voice is so annoying.
@sophiecheer (931)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
Gee.. I am kind of boisterous when laughing, especially when something is really funny. Personally, I don't consider laughter as a factor on why a guy gets turned off. But..yeah, I guess we all have our own sets of qualifications when dealing about that. Truly, it's a subjective matter.
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 12
Hii Graceekwenx....Ummm I wonder the way you laugh :)
Well, laughing and smilling are different. When we smile, we can manage it. We can control our smile as sweet as we want, but when we laugh we can't manage how wide will our lips open and how hard will we laugh because laughing is reflex and automatically happen. When we laugh there are many muscle that are contraction. That's why laughing can help us to look younger and fresh. But yeah it is okay if you don't like women's laugh.
@Glitznglitter (389)
• Canada
5 Mar 12
Thats almost racial not liking someone because they don't laugh the way you like to hear someone laugh, regardless male or female. The way someone laughs may annoy or irk you but to not like them because of a laugh. I have a hard time with that.
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
5 Mar 12
I have a friend(a girl) who laughes so laud and ugly, but , her talking is also ugly, she behaves as a bar girl, but, she is not. Everytime I go out with her I get a little embaresed whenever she laugh, people give us a look, so , I try to come her down. She doesnt care about what people think about her, but, I think she needs to have a little respect for people around her , I dont know , I feel that an atractive woman should be atractive in all aspects, knowing how to behave in and out of her house.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
Not good habit to laugh for any one. why you habitual for laughing?