still inlove with my ex-boyfriend

As I'm writing this, a co-worker/friend seating beside me walked out of the room (LOL!) She had a really bad experience about her ex.... Anyway....Girl, you gotta move on.I know, it's just easy to say but harder to do... My older brother broke up with his girlfriend after 12 years, but they got back together, but that's besides the point. A few months ago, I went through a bad break up and many others had worse. Worse than you can ever imagine. The only way to move on is to pray and do something about it. Act. Do the things that you love. Be with the person whom you know genuinely love you. If you feel loved by these people, yeah you may cry thinking about him, but you'd feel the overflowing love of your family and friends. So, spend more time with them, do the things that you love. Tell yourself you can do it. Then do it. You'll look like a fool wanting the person that doesn't want you anymore. Don't try to fix it when you have done everything, you've done your part and he still doesn't want you, then let him go. YOU THINKING THAT YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM IS ALLOWING YOURSELF TO GET FIXATED ON THAT SITUATION AND YOU WILL NEVER MOVE ON. BUT IF YOU THINK POSITIVE AND YOU'LL TELL YOURSELF THAT IT'S TIME TO LET GO...LOVE THOSE PEOPLE WHO GENUINELY LOVE ME. GOD WILL HELP ME, THEN IN JUST MONTHS, YOU'LL BE FINE. MOVING ON IS YOUR DECISION, If you want to move on, then do it. If you want to feel bad forever, it's your choice. He's not the only one. Losing someone whom you dearly love paves way for you to start appreciating the love of others.

My question here is how come he broke up with you? What must be the problem within your relationship? Do you think he must be fed up with you already? What kind of mistake that you did for him to decide that he doesn't love you anymore? Is it also your first time to be in love and commit in a relationship?

It happens either way and i know how much it pains. it really hurts to break up with the loved ones.But fortunately not all relationships or break ups are permanent. there is still hope to reunite by sorting out the problems issues that must have led to this break up. An open heart discussion and the willingness to compromise,based on the policy of give and take can sort out the most complicated of issues

hi. it is the deepest pin to love the guy who donot love you. and you can not control the love. do flow you heart and do not expexct too much. don't care too much about the results.love is let your lover happy. when you older you will find this is a womderful memory.

You are still in deny period and it may take sometimes to overcome it. One advice that I would like to give to you is to try not to hold onto hope, yet you know it is almost impossible for the guy to love you again. You need to try to move on from here by accepting that the relationship is over and focusing on healing. By doing that, you find that you will probabaly take a less time to heal and you will soon find that you can love again. Love should be a two way thing and if one is not willing, you cannot just be in love alone. I wish you luck.

Aww... I am sorry, hope he'll be there with you again. I know it is not easy losing a half of your life. But when we have no way to make it back like the beginning, we just need to deal with it. It is your heart that feels like everything is over now, but the world doesn't. Life will force you to move on, sooner or later. I remembered these words : Relationship is like a glass, sometimes it is better to let it broken than hurting your fingers putting them back together.

I am not sure if this discussion could remain here long, but I would like to express my sympathy for you. I do hope you move on soon, if this relationship couldn't really work out. Best wishes!

I understand what you feel but a relationship takes two people to make it last. If he's not willing to take another chance to grow & let it blossom . It's useless to persuade him to go back to you. Hope you can recover soon. It's not the end of everything, just look at the brighter side of life. Who knows, the right guy for you might just be around the corner.

There is a big difference between being in love and feeling hurt because he doesn't love you anymore. I think with you it's more the feelings about not being loved by him anymore. You have to work on that since if you don't this will only make your life more miserable. You have to force yourself to be happy, to make yourself happy, to live your own life. It's in your own benefit because no matter if it's your ex or someone new.. nobody likes to be with someone who is always greeving, lost all trust, has no self confidence and is hungry for someone elses love and that person to make him/her happy. You can't start all over again if you don't work on yourself. There is a good reason why he walked out.