You sisters and brothers fighting with each other at home.
By dilrajj57
@dilrajj57 (1757)
Pakistan
18 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
That's actually natural with brothers and sister specially during childhood. That's each one doesn't want that their opinion be ignored. They want that their opinions be the ones followed.
But as we grew older, we learned how to be responsible, understanding and forgiving. Thus, fights becomes lesser until they are no more.
I guess, everyone mellows as they grow older.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
3 Oct 12
I agree with my friend simply this is natural fight with brother and sister specially in childhood but some naughty person fight even after young age. But childhood quarrels are funny way but in young age may be convert in danger if not match the opinion.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
3 Oct 12
you are right to say that in childhood quarrels of brothers naturaly, but later in young age there are some greediness and dangerous.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
Yes friend every one think himself very clever and brave and not want that their opinions be the once followed. and that good when grew then they accept its not good to keep any brother or sisters in trouble. Thanks and take care.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
4 Oct 12
Well, my case is a bit special. I have a brother 11 years younger than me, in fact I'm 37 years old, while he was 26.
Unfortunately, we do not go much agree, this is the fact, for the largest of his behavior pretentious and arrogant.
Or rather, I behave well and always politely to him, but this, unfortunately, he is taking advantage of it.
I am ashamed at my age simply ask the help of my parents, but I realize that to achieve the goal of make me respect by him, although I am the older brother, is a struggle that unfortunately I can not even fight!
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
12 Oct 12
alberello
you have some physical disability and your brother should understand this and try to help you. happy you are polite to him. he will change.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
10 Oct 12
thank yo ufriend alberello, i read your reply for the discussion, and very please that your behave with your younger brother is very very patiently as a older brother, this may be done for all to their younger brothers, thanks again, and take care.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Oct 12
I used to fight with my younger brother alot when we were children . Now we are so loving even though I still make some fun of him lol . I think its normal for sibling to fight when they are young .
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 12
first i afraid to think that you fight with your younger brother alot but when see that it was when you were children, then i make happy that you not not. but now you loving with eachother, Take care.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
9 Mar 12
My little sister is six and a half years younger than I am, so while we were growing up we didn't do a lot of fighting with each other. However, my little brother is two and a half years younger than I am and we definitely did do our fair share of fighting while we were growing up. There are some times that we will still fight with each other, but for the most part we are able to get along pretty well these days.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
10 Mar 12
hi hope you fine and happy every time. Very good for you that you not fight with your young sister, thats true that often brother fall every time to fight with sisters but later when their sisters got married and out from parent house then their brother feeling sad for their sisters. Thanks once again and take care.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
hi,
actually it will depend upon the age of being maturity,if they are young as 15 year old but their mind is already matured then i think fighting to each other will lessen,i have experienced that when i was in high school student and i fought to my younger sister which the age was 12 year old and i was 14 year old during that time.
@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
I get angry with my sister if she doesn't say something politely.I'd remind her to say it nicely but later on we're in good terms again.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 12
hi kat-princess,
please don't be more angry with your sister if you so advise her later she will be good and politely. be happy always.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
yeah, it is quite common for siblings to fight especially those who are close in birth years. i used to fight with my younger sister, but not really physical fight but more on arguments. sibling rivalry is stronger when the economic condition is tight for the family, i would say. but now, i am closer to my younger sister than to my other siblings.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
ok thank you for your nice reply of the discussion about fighting between brothers and sisters, i really to say that the parents their children happy and pleasure all time but if parents faced as like children when they fight every time and not remain pleasure then their parents fall in very tension and more trouble due to as like children, Therefore please not fight with each other. and passed the time with good honor with each other. and then you will tell me that how you are now?
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
5 Mar 12
This is an universal problem.Sisters and brothers fight and quarrel in every home. its the more fortunate and blessed ones who are blessed to enjoy the bliss of the sister-brother relationship. Those who are single child to their parents are not so lucky.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
hi friend,
Thanks for reply for the discussion, i agree with you that it is universal problem that sisters and brothers fight and quarrel in everywhere in every home. Thats the human nature. But they are brother and sisters and one day they will fell that we should adopt the life with pleasure with each other. one talk you described the those who are single child to their parents are not so lucky but if i say i will pray for that single child that they met an other brother or sister that they remain busy in life with that.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
6 Mar 12
First of all, I’m so glad that I was an open child. But I have known people who have had siblings and there have been times where they were at each others throats. But then again, that does seem to be something that is not surprising when you consider it. There are just many siblings that tend to get along, almost some of the time.
I think when you do have siblings, there are just many insecurities that are out there, mentally speaking, that you don’t have as an only child. Even if your parents might swear they have no favorites, I’m sure people who have brothers or sisters or both will always wonder in the back of their mind. When others have complained about their siblings before, it is almost always about someone getting away with something that they never do. And in some sad cases, it does extend into adulthood.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
10 Mar 12
ok friend thank you for your nice reply to me about discussion, there every where have this problem to fight with each other in family but latter noting among them and they remain happy with each others. Thanks.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
6 Mar 12
I think there will be a point that I totally need to fight for my right. It is not over that other people abuses my humility.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
7 Mar 12
hi Metatronik, Thanks for you you said some points will be among for which you totaly need to fight for your right, i think you now all are in very young age and you now fighting for your rights, but in somewhere young brothers also fight for right as in property of Fathers, if you fight for so benefits then there are need for other people who can solve your fight matters. but you need to some good solution about your fighting matters.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
7 Mar 12
ok friend you have five friend, dont fight as that you got injured to any one and then they fall in pain please. you right to say that often brother and sisters fight with each other i day but then in night they get together and all that forgotten the incident. Thanks once again.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 12
I never see my brother and my sister fighting. Cos Im the only female, besides my mom and grandmother, in my family. But I did fighting sometimes with my big bro, but never with my lil bro. I made alliance with my lil bro cos both of us not having good communication with my big bro. It was when we were still kid, now we are all fine :D
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
ok thank you very much for reply, you said that you and your lil brother together make a one force to fight with bid brother as he keep huge power, then you both lay down your big brother hahahah nice but don't hurt him more please. Take care of all you sisters and brothers.
@anuragv69 (91)
•
5 Mar 12
well i have a sister younger than me she is too annoying she yell at me and uses slangs . she always has a complain saying that he gets all the stuff and i dont but she too gets more than me what i didnt get in my childhood . sumtimes i get frustrated listening to her but i always prefer being calm.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 12
ok friend anuragv69, thank you friend for nice reply with your sister please take care you both.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
yes, yes there has been a lot of misunderstanding, and a lot more of fighting and shouting at each other. well i think that is really common to people and siblings, right. after it has been sorted out, then it is as if nothing has happened.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
ok friend if there is nothing among but in some talk they begin to fight each others.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
12 Oct 12
it is common for children to fight with each other for toys, pens, pencils and sweet etc. nothing wrong. after becoming adult this should stop. in a few families this continues even after that because of possessiveness--no one wants to share their things with others.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Mar 12
We never fought at home. Our only problem was: 3 sisters so 1 was mostly not able to play too (3 is too much) and one way younger brother (so we all were his brother).
This besides of the fact my parents wanted us to be quite day and night and beat us up for no reason. We were way to afraid to speak, to play, to do what we liked. We were always tip-toeing.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
ok friend that you never fight at home. That is very good habit but you that you mostly able to play why? and you said that your father wanted you to quite these for all time a day you remain quite? it not good that neither you speak, play but afraid, oh sorry for that you should remain happy with each other and to play with each other.
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
i was in families of three children. i'm the eldest. and my two siblings are boys. my brother next to me is the one who is kinda bad. i mean his not really a bad one but he has his own principle in life that should not be considered. my family and relatives tried to extend our patience on him but we are just human that sometimes we lost patience. he's always been the reason why there were fights in the house.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
5 Mar 12
ok friend in house there is some one appear bad that their other brothers, oysters and relative have in trouble, but you all in home advise him with love and not to do bad with any one.