Things I never wanted to do in life

I have not looked into my life deeply to mention the trials in my life that become more of a blessing. I think I have not half way of living this life I have. I am truly inspired of the positiveness you have. With every trials you experience you never backed down and make it a hindrance to grow. I admire you for being a strong woman and will be forever glad for sharing your story with us. I will always remember that in every rain there will always be a rainbow if we dont let the rain drown us.

Hiya maggie, Such a lot has happened to you I don´t want to write about mine as I really would not know whether they are blessings or something else I just got through them. It is lovely the way you write all this. Well some of mine are blessings like everyone else and some are really not at all. We have stayed together in spite of all the predictions they made against us that is one blessing for me at least. By the way People do meet on the Internet I understand your feelings about that but it does turn out very well a lot of times and I am so glad it did for him.xxx

I never wanted to have a job in sales but now I am engage in selling life insurance here in my country. And I am happy that I am doing well in this profession. Honestly, a blessings in disguise are true. We just have to live with it.

well this is a great conversation, and i am so sorry about your husband and the things that have happend to you in your life, it makes me sad to think, that while you and your husband may not have much time left together becasue of his illness me and my healthy husband are argueing and he just told me he no longer loves me. that is sad.. i still do love him, however if he is not in love with me then i have to move on, so i told him i was gonna find someone else, after he told me he wants a divorce.. and i am in the process of talking to a wonderful guy i have met online, we are just talking for now until after the divorce, he seems likea great guy.. but im still leary about meeting guys on the internet.. we will see.. i would have never even looked at snother guy ,if my husband had wanted to stay. but life is too short to waste it on someone who does not love or appreicate you. take care of you little girl she is precious as she is.. and as for your sister i have bi piolar as well.. so i know what she is going thru is not easy.. because of it i have lost alot. my first husband, my 2nd husband , my family my mo is angry at me now becasue in a bi polar mania stage i yelled and cussed her which i dont do when im in my right mind.. i have a court date coming up the 20th.. where once again when in mania i got mad at a male nurse at the hospitsl and he got up in my face yelling at me and i slapped him.. so i have charges on that.. so right now i am on a new medication and i seem to be doing well on it.. it is called sequeral extended relief.. and it is the best medication i have ever been on.. but it is very expensive.. even with my good insurance.. but my husband now has not been a very good husband as far as providing for me and keeping a roof over my head and feeding me good. that is about all he does, he is a very negative person, and tells me negative stuff every day i have been praying to god about the situation to stsy or to go, so i think him wanting me to elave was a blessing, he was a horrible husband and we were not happy together and we have agreed to be friends.. so we will make much better freinds.. the sad thing was that if he had not wanted to leave no matter how miserable i was i would have never left him.. so im ok with it im slowly putting my life back together stsying on my medication and lookig forward to a new bright future.. wish me luck...

As of the moment I can't determine yet. But then there are things that I don't like to be happened when my boyfriend wasn't able to defend me against his friends. He got mad at me like hell and he forced me to be humble with his friends. But you know with my humility I did, his friends were over flattered to the point that they are bragging too much about themselves. They tend to abuse my humility. So for now I became more strict to my boyfriend and I already put my limitations to him. He tends to follow all the things that I want especially his relationship with his friends. He is willing to sacrifice all the things that I am saying about him of what he is lacking especially the failures of his friends he is now acknowledging it. I just like it when he gave me an assurance that he will no longer meet his friends but the only thing I did't give a condition is that he will have to choose between us if it is me or his friends.

Thanks a LOT for sharing Maggie! The way you look at the things that are happening to your life is really a great inspiration. I never wanted to be in a long distance relationship because I know that it's a very tough thing to do and that my trust to my partner will be greatly tested. And now, I am currently in a long distance relationship with a great guy. He's not just my boyfriend but he's my best friend too. We fight a lot of course, and it's all because we are far apart and there are some things that get out of our hands and somehow it affects our time together, but despite of all those things, our love just keeps growing stronger and I miss him more everyday. Looking forward to seeing him again, it will only be days to go and he will be here. Looking forward on that day..:)

I am still trying not to cry at your beautiful post! I never wanted to be a person who caused others any kind of pain. I always wanted to be a loving giving person. That comes from my horrible childhood. I never wanted a BROTHER that abused me sexually and physically. I had hoped for a loving caring brother who loved and protected me. Instead I got one that was a terror. I never thought I would even consider remarrying. Then Bill came along and erased all those thoughts. I never believed that I could feel such strong emotions for a family I have never met in person. I feel as though I am a part of their family and am frustrated at not being there to help them at such a needful time in their lives. Losing a person who you love with all your heart is never easy, and there is no way to express my feelings and desires to help the family out. I know how the husband is feeling about being tired of being in pain all the time and tired of being ill. I wish I could take his place so that his wonderful wife could have him with her forever. I never thought that I was so soft hearted that I could cry so easily at the plight of others. I can't say that everything that happened in my life proved to be a blessing, but I did learn from them and some of them have made me a much stronger person.

Sometimes the things we don't want are God's most beautiful blessings. Have a terrific day!

Hi mysticmaggie Great discussion. Whether we like it or not, we stand no where when it comes to nature, destiny and wishes of Almighty. I had never thought I would be ill - when it happened, I was shocked and depressed. Over time, I started appreciating the positivity behind the illness. Today I am unemployed, confined to home and have loved this phase too. I am able to do things which I always wanted to do but never did them - sometimes it was the professional world or the busy schedules on others. Today, I can play in the rain, spend time with my little orphan friends, share some time with the older people at old age homes and hey, I love these. I couldnt do these earlier. It is not out of frustration of my illness or any other reason that I am in love with this situation of mine, I am loving this phase because in its course, I have really started to love my life, love myself much more than I could ever when I was normal.

Yes, there is. I really don't like to have a son, yet I ended to have a son. I don't like to teach because teaching is not my forte, but I realize it might be my calling. There are still some things that I never wanted but it came just to prove me wrong.

You have made me look at things differently. So thank you! I never wanted my husband to get hurt at work but we have had so much more time to spend together and he has found the Lord again from it. I didn't want to leave my parents house quite when we did but its so much more peaceful staying in the motel. I never wanted to lose some of my family to quarrels but I have learned to lean more on God and my husband. Thank you for this discussion!

There is nothing I never really wanted, although there were things I never expected. Like getting older, I always tried to survive my abusive parents, my ex husband. But just like you I feel rich. My life was never easy and still it is not but I know I am strong, a survivor and I saw my kids grow up to great, creative personalities. Your story really touched my heart, thanks for sharing!

It sounds like you have turned any negative in your life that has come your way into a definate positive experience. Thats commmendable, you sound like you have a happy home life, a beautiful family and a marriage that these days is unheard of. Congratulations you are an inspiration.

I do not want to see my boyfriend with another girl. It was a several weeks ago, when he told me that he had an afair with another girl. He said that it was nothing, but it hurts me very deeply. So I do not want to think about that, but I just can stop .... it hurts so much!!!