deceit
By ladyphoenix
@ladyphoenix (145)
Philippines
5 responses
@ladyphoenix (145)
• Philippines
29 Jun 12
love shows no boundaries. but relationships do not follow the same mantra as love. it has it's own nature. it's not at all times sunny. sometimes it's gloomy. exposing whatever you are hiding entails consequences. we must be ready to accept whatever these consequences.
@ladyphoenix (145)
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
true we need to hide something to protect someone. but not all hidden things will be kept hidden forever, it will come out on its own accord. you cannot grab the smoke by your fist.
@psychoartist (756)
• United States
29 Jun 12
hi ladyphoenix...these people sound like sociopaths to me...i have read a book about them, "the sociopath next door" which describes how these evil people are masked as "regular" people but are really evil and cold monsters without healthy human emotions and feelings..those kinds of people are often serial killers and abusers but some do evil cruel things that are not really crimes and are not diagnosed or punished...another book about them is "the mask of sanity" by dr. henry kleck...people who are like this have no legitimate emotional reactions or feelings and they watch others and mimic them so that they can blend in and others will not know that they are dangerous...it really is important to be careful who you become involved with and sometimes it is hard to tell that these sorts of people are not genuine...i read another book called "dance with the devil, my marriage to a pyschopath" by barbara bradley and this lady married a man who claimed to be a war admiral and she believed him and he had medals and uniforms and things and told a lot of stories that turned out to not be true and he tried to kill her when she questioned him...then, she found out he had never been in the navy at all but had stolen all the things..her big clue was that the fbi came to her house looking for her husband and the medals...
@ladyphoenix (145)
• Philippines
5 Jul 12
thank you psychoartist.that is something mostly refreshing and enlightening.i am thinking to look for those books you said. it may come in handy in due time. but as of the moment i am relying on so far what i have learned from the academe how to confront these kind of people.
but no, i do not consider them sociopaths. not yet. i just categorized them as mentally/emotionally challenged individual, not yet both. if they will be both, then that's the time to grab those books and alert the authorities that such people do co-exist. grab those books, just in case i need to battle with them personally because the authorities were still busy dealing with other troubled individual.
but the thing is, i want to emphasize that they do exist. we are seeing the symptoms and we do nothing to correct them at the very beginning, hence so many climb up to the next level and run amok in the society.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
6 Mar 12
Amen! They teach you that if you ever have someone you know who is in rehab or somethingn like that. They will tell you all about this persons characteristics and teach you about how they will manipulate and lie to get what they want. It blows my mind how much confidence these people have when they are doing this. They are con artists sort of and good at it!
@ladyphoenix (145)
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
thank you for agreeing. but our concern mainly is how to act just in case we will meet one.there are theories and base on experience actions. but these are not enough. true, events happen twice, but every event is unique and counter asault must be unique, too.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Hi. I agree with you partly on this. I mean, these are qualities that the usual criminal would possess. But there are those whose profiles are somewhat different. Like there are criminals who seem to be narcissistic. That they would rather brag about what they could do even before doing the criminal act.
@ladyphoenix (145)
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
i prefer to be with them rather stay with people whose hiding their true nature. at least these narcissists are true to themselves. and yes of course its kind of eerie but at least you can prepare a counter asault just in case. compared to those hiding something. we do not really know what is inside their minds. there is a saying that goes: keep your friends closer and your enemies closer.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
6 Mar 12
unless they think they are smart, nobody can catch them or believe them if they say it with a smile. It's way easier as we think to recognize a thief, criminal, fugitive or person with hidden motives. Esp. if we are not blind for reality, if we can live with the answer, if we don't just want to hear what we like to hear, if we listen to our instinct and don't believe everything just because someone says it's the way it is. There is nothing wrong with doubting and questioning!
@ladyphoenix (145)
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
doubting and questioning is better that doing nothing at all. at least in doubting we can come up with something to prepare with. in questioning we can come with answers to our querries. doubting can lead us to questioning and questioning can lead to us liberation, finally liberation can give us freedom from our doubts.