I will go out naked today to show my inner beauty :p

Hii jaihoo.... Such a nice thought knowing the real beauty, the inner beauty is as difficult as the time that is needed, but inner beauty is last no matter what you wear, inner beauty won't get old and weak Not like the outside look, just at the first sight we can know wether she is beautiful or not, but this beauty is just in short time. You'll get old and the beauty is gone. But one thing I can't resist, the first impression is important , because people will get to know you more when they are interested with you.

no need to be naked just to see people your inner beauty. it will come out automatically! i believe and agree! :

I have a problem with this! When I see unattractive people i will not give them the time of day! I am sorry to say but alot of people I have met that have ugly appearences are quit stupid inside! There is no way I can see the inner beauty of in ugly people even after getting to know them! I see a very atractive person and most times I can see the inner beauty,after I get to know them. I have alot of trouble getting past the other looks! Some of it has to do with how I grew up. People I have known over the years. Some of the jerks I dated and some people I've worked with. It is just who I am. Like it or not!

Hi Jai sis, at first i thought what's wrong with my sister? Going naked today in Mylot?? After reading the whole discussion, then i realized what your discussion is all about. Indeed inner beauty is hard to see and realized. It takes time to discover the inner beauty of a person. Same goes for my dear sister and dear friends. Well, i had seen the beauty of my dear sister in here, since from the day i get to know you. Do take care always, although i know you are a very busy person same like me.

Waaahhh Oh Em! Hehehe Hello amiga! I'm back :-) for good.... It's been months when I was gone amiga... I miss u and mylot. I am not going online for months too because of discomfort. Early pregnancy amiga. It's about 10 weeks now and I am feeling good than before. Anyway, I thought you will be going to the beach and have an early summer break! Hehehe

It is not right to put people in grooves as people change depending on circumstances. When statements such as 'beauty is skin deep' are made it concerns those who are not good within but deck themselves up. Those who dress well need not be bad within as well.

Hi Jai! You have an interesting point to make. We all say that inner beauty is more important than outwardly appearance, yet we get attracted towards a person seeing his/her outwardly appearance. You see when you start talking with someone then only you get to know how s/he is behaving and what are his/her likely traits. Whether s/he is a good speaker or a good listener? Whether s/he keeps narrating his/her woes or talk about positive things also? When I interact with a new person, it takes time for me to understand him/her and it is difficult for me to 'understand' a person in the first meeting. I am slow learner ........lol! BTW, you are beautiful inside and outside both and that is why you have many friends in life. Very Good discussion.

Like you said, true beauty is inner beauty. Human are blessed with abilities to see what's inside our hearts and minds, that's why physical appearances come in handy. I am not telling anyone to dress to kill but decent outfits is enough. First impression is not always correct but they help to represent us even a tiny bit.

Yes i had that experience before. And I agree, it may be hard but sometimes we must look past what are eyes can see and focus more on the inner character of a person. First impression last they say, but for me its better to know the person first to know the totality of what is beautiful and what is not.

I completlly say it's absolutly right. Because the real beauty is our inside. Out side beauty is discovered People for only temperory reasons. I admired from one person because of his inner heart, but she is also beauty as well in out look. When i admit my Grandma on hospital lots of nurses came there and they are only doing the job not taking care. But she gives care so much. She make me impressed in his first sight.

Well, being naked and walking around might stop some people and cause some accidents. LOL. No, really, you're right. Beauty is only skin deep. The real person is always inside. I also agree that the outer beauty is the first thing that catches someones attention, but to truly know who the real person is, it does take time to talk with them and learn what they are about. And if you really are a good person, that will come out.

How long the outer beauty will last, it will be say for 30 years at best, but next what? It will fade out, but the inner beauty will LAST FOR EVER. A person who looks good may look bad soon if you take into account the physical body only, see the soul if you can. hugs from maa

But on the other hand we live in a very shallow society that cares so much with the aesthetics. But for sure there are some people out there who managed to defy the norm, Its not only inner beauty but also the way we carry our selves. I meanthere are people we wont consider attractive yet they make the 100 sexist list. I remember beautiful blonde women are stereotyped as dumb but I had seen a beautiful blonde woman who is very smart. Back to inner beauty, its something plastic surgery or makeovers cant fix. Inner beauty is all about kindness, love and compassion. (Lol Why am I being cheesier than a cheese factory)

Woot! Woot! Okay you're not naked jai And even if I haven't met you personally I can feel that you are beautiful inside and out. I won't say that I am... as I know my outside appearance and inner attitude is not at all perfect. I do think that we cannot actually see whether people are real and good inside and out unless we're always with the person. Sometimes we may feel that the person is evil - when we saw them really annoyed over something. But it could be that they were just caught in a frustrating situation where they need to let their anger and emotions burst out. For me I don't base my judgment on how a person looks. I based it on how the person talks with me or other people. Especially if I am seeing them or talks to them regularly - like an office mate, a roommate or maybe neighbors. And normally I am wrong with my first impression.

hi jaiho eyes are windows to the soul is a famous saying and I have often noticed when meeting someone that while they are smiling and acting pleasant the woman had the coldest eyes I had ever seen. She was really quite beautiful until she looked at me then said" Oh you live there

"Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised." Indeed it is hard to know all at once the inner beauty of a person. Chances are..you are will noticed first and foremost the physical looks. If the person is beautiful you will be attracted, if not you will take no extra effort to look at the person again. In most cases it really takes time to see what is inside that person. Sadly, a person with outer beauty does not necessarily mean they are also beautiful inside. In many cases many people are like graves. Outside they are white and well polished but inside... they are decaying and stinking. There are also cases that by mere talking, you can already have a hint of the inner condition of that person even if you have just met him once. When a person opens his mouth with wisdom and in his tongue you can hear the law of kindness then chances are he has the inner beauty that would bless every one. Have you ever met a woman who speak with lots of cursing even while she is only plainly talking and not really angry? Then that woman is already revealing a parcel of what is inside of her through the words of her mouth.

Jane beti, you always confuse me and others here, inner beauty is the real beauty, no doubt, but most are attracted to the outer beauty that may be decicive. Hugs from Dada

Sis? are you serious!! hehehe well sis, theortically speaking, inner beauty shines through to reveal your outer beauty.... I am feeling good and pogi now because I am happy.. I am wearing a smile on my face because my graduation is fast approaching... this makes I think my inner beauty shines through revealing my outer beauty.... hehehehe magulo ba?