As they say, "life is too short"
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
March 6, 2012 7:58am CST
I was really wondering why some girls tend to marry guys whom they don't love that much. That they don't even think that it is a lifetime knot. That they cannot turn their back the moment they say "I do". Just like what I have witnessed this evening. The girl pursue the marriage despite of what she really feels. That, even the love that she feel is only a friendly love, still, she chose to be a bride. She have finally said "I do". And let the wedding ceremony proceed. Hence, after witnessing this ceremony, I was really thinking, why some people tend to dwell on the things which cannot really bring happiness to them. Isn't it they are not really thinking that, life is too short to spend it on the situation that cannot bring the true meaning of joy to us. Thus, it is indeed to look back anymore. Much more, we cannot bring back what has been done already.
12 responses
@thelmadacullo112659 (642)
• Philippines
7 Mar 12
It depends upon the situation.....Life is too short if u have sick that is no curable.But if urhealthy and stays fit,why should ur life be short? Am i right dear????
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@picture59 (64)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 12
The girl had make her choice and no one can judge it whether right or wrong, happy or don't, that's her life. What's happiness? How do we know she won't be happy after all? Even a loving couples could be divorced, what else can guarantee for a successful marriage? Yes, life is too short, rather than waiting for someone in future or a dream man that could never exist, perhaps the girl just want to give it a shot, and who knows they wouldn't work out? As friends, what we can do is just wishing the girl can eventually love her choice and live a happy life. Have a nice day :)
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@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
Some people are also looking for financial stability that's why other people are marrying even if true love isn't actually present. Eventually, as the years passes by, the couple would be in love with each other, I know some friends who also is in this situation. Then with love, comes happiness. The only drawback is only the time when it will happen.
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
13 Mar 12
We really cannot judge them. Maybe they have other reasons why they chose that destiny. Maybe she is in love with the money because the guy is rich even though, she’s not happy with her feelings. I do not know. It is difficult for me to judge them because we really cannot read their mind.
@olliekobra1 (1825)
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15 Mar 12
With the marrige thing i think that some people never really know what they want out of life so they keep changing there mind. Maybe the girl did love the guy but she was unsure.
@JDaw2006 (428)
• United States
7 Mar 12
Well i myself rushed into things with my husband. Yes i did love him but im not sure if i was in love with him. But i think the real reason that i got married when i did was because my grand parents are and were getting a little old. i wanted to make sure that they would be able to watch me get married. I was also pregnate when i got married so i think that could have a little to do with it as well. But with all that being said I love my husband with all my heart and would not trade it for anything. I do however some times wonder what it would be like now if i would have finished collage before getting married and having kids.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Mar 12
So these girls married guys they don't love and like to dwell on things which can not bring them happiness, may be they are just plain stupid, it is as simple as that. They believe they can just untie the knot by going to divorce court, it is not uncommon in today marriage, they can bring back what has been done in a matter of day, believe or not, it is a lot easy than you want to believe if you can afford to pay for the court and attorney fee. That is her choice and her life, let not involve with that, be cool, Pal@ Happy Mylloting!
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
7 Mar 12
it is really sad that sometimes money over rules love. but we can not blame them especially if the money can help her and her family a lot. its up to the girl if she will love her husband still even without the money. you are right, life is too short so no amount of money can ever turn back time.
@godslove25 (402)
• Philippines
7 Mar 12
Too sad to hear, being tight knot to a guy she doesn't love that much, Maybe she has a personal reason. Lets just hope that their marriage will last long that love, respect, trust and God will be the center of their relationship.
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
It's only those people who can answer that. Are you sure that those decision they made won't make them happy? No matter what it is, let's just be happy for them.
Love is a process you might not gonna know, they fell in love with one another.
@Mashnn (4501)
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7 Mar 12
Some marry because of pressure, others because of personal gains. I just do not understand why should someone marry someone yet he or she feels she is not really in love with that person. It is sad indeed. This is the reason why most marriages nowadays won't last long.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 12
I will only marry some1 that I love for true. I don't care how old is he, where he comes from, or how he looks like. I just need the comfortness when Im with him, feeling of protected by some1 who love me as well, and we have same thought about future as family.
