my mother

I'm really sorry to hear this, my friend. My mother is also getting old nowadays and her health is not as good as few years later. I worry about her everyday but thank God that she is generally just fine. So reading your discussion is just like a mirror for me that we have same condition. My mother also consumes herbal drink not the chemical one. She makes it by herself based on the Mr. Hembing ingredients. She can keep healthy by consuming it regularly. and now she doesn't consume it only for herself but also for others. she makes the herbal drink for people who require it. I hope your mother will get better soon like my mother. never stop hoping cos God is always beside people who try hard..

Helli india, I'm so sorry to hear about your mother having the stroke. In this day and age I'm sure there are some helpful medicines out there. I'm praying for you and your mom that the Chinese medicines work. I know how it feels to be spending too much money on doctor bills and then none work, I have seen it too.

Hi, good to hear from you back here on MyLot. So sorry to hear about your mother, though. I know this is stressful for your family but on the other hand I hope you'll be able to spend quality time with her as well. Sometimes it's the encouraging and the loving touch of a human that helps with healing process. Life is full of miracles and you just never know what will happen next.

I pray for your mom to get well soon. IF she's sick, she should stick to whatever treatment she's going through. Some treatments needs time to see effects. Besides, if she's visiting doctors in hospital, it's better than she's not eating chinese medicine. You can't mix the both of them as it would have reverse effects on her instead. You can opt for chinese treatment such as acupuncture, massage and all, but never chinese medicine.

thats good ! Chinese medicine can help too. I agree with you.

It is a very sad news. I hope she will be allright. But don't warry my good wishes is with you friend. Have a nice day.

I am so sorry to hear that your mother is not getting better. Alot of holistic medicine out there. She needs good nutrients and your continued support. I hope that there is improvement soon.

i do hope your mother will be recovered sista.. iam sorry late responding i think you never come here anymore... i do hope not only your mother can be patient, you too...you must be strong for your mother you must be patient for your mother

My heart is with you my friend. I know how it feels when someone we loved gets ill. Don't lost hope my friend seek second opinion, most of the time it works.Just have faith.

hello Indah... i hope she will be better soon with the herbal medicine. but you must believe that God creates ills and there will be medicine for them. maybe it is better for you to say gently to your mother that her ill is God's willing and she must be patience and give all her problems to God. i think if she accepts her ill willingly, it will reduce it and she will not regret all her money or time wasted. nice discussion...

I am sorry to hear about your mother my friend. It's not indeed easy to recover quickly from a stroke. It will take a lot of medication, will power and i think physical therapy before one could recover. My father-in-law when he had his stroke, wasn't able to speak and his body was paralyzed. My MIL really persevered , according to her in massaging his tongue and body and in his medication until he recovered. Just continue encouraging her to fight and believe that she will someday recover.

I hope chinese or herbal medicines could make your mother well.. I am sorry to hear about her condition. Good thing that you are there for good care for her

Hello indahfth, Im sorry for what happened to your mother and I pray for God to recover her from her illness. my grandfather passed away from stroke months ago so I know how do you feel about your mother's condition. I believe that the greatest medicine is pray and the spirit to get well. I think that you and your family should encouraging your mother to have the spirit to get well, to believe that the only one who can cure her illness is God. believing that whatever happens is the best from God. do not be discouraged just because the doctor says that your mother could not return to normal life as before. doctor is only human, in the end only God who knows what will happen. who knows if there will be a miracle to make your mother get well as before. sent my pray and wish to your mother, a lot of love and care from me your new sister.

Sorry for what you have been through. Though the doctors and everyone else may say anything, I do believe that there is nothing impossible with God. Let us keep faith and pray for her recovery.

I don't know what Chinese medicine will do for her. In the USA, after that period of time has lapsed, all that could be done would be therapy. Maybe a combination of Chinese medicine and therapy will strengthen her muscles and get rid of her depression.

I am so sad to hear this indah there is nothing waste as long as we r trying to get cured. And as long as we still live..we have to try anything that we can and dont give up. About the result..let God decide it

How old is your mother? Stroke and heart attack are two dangerous diseases. The disease is due to bad eating habits. Most of us have bad eating habits. We all like food containing high fat, and calories and also we mostly3 do not like to have regular exercise. Walking for 30 minutes every day is actually enough to stay away from these diseases. For moslem, we are adviced to fast at least twice a week. This is good to remove fat accumulation in the artery. Stroke is cause by the accumulation of fat in the artery, which finally blocks the blood flow. I hope your effort to use chinese medicine will be of great help to have your mother cured of that stroke. I pray for you mother.

This is 3 months old discussion, how is she now, spending money on treatment is not wastage in my opinion, yes you may try alternative medicines ENJOY A HAPPY WEEKEND Prof.Dr. B.Saraf. PhD

I understand how hard it is to have a stroke victim in the family. My father-in-law had a stroke last July and he was in the hospital for over a month. I can't describe how emotionally, physically, and financially straining it was. When he was discharged in the hospital, he still couldn't control his body and mind, oftentimes in a daze and disoriented. He continued taking medicines several times a day. 10 tablets in the morning, 6 at noon, and 3 in the evening. Before he slept, we also injected him with insulin because he also had diabetes. It seemed he would never recover and would always be confined in his bed or wheelchair. But we never lost hope. With the help of medicine, therapy, and diet, he is on his way to recovery. He is now able to walk but limps a little. The doctor told us my father-in-law will never fully return to his previous self but at least we still have him in our family.

I'm sorry to hear that. I do wish your mother will get better. Both of you and your family, I hope will be healthy. One of my family got stroke few years ago, but she recovered. Continue to pray and do the best.