If some one was to come and tell you that your husband had been sleeping with

I'm glad to hear that it didn't happen to you.And I feel really bad for the person that it did happen too. That is so aweful. I would be highly upset about it of course. But my friends are really honest and so I would trust them. They wouldn't tell me anything like that if it weren't true. I hope that your friend is able to get over that situation. It would be unbearable hard to deal with.

hi, i am wishing that situation will not happen to me ever because the truth is i really dont know what should i do,because if i will feel very angry for sure will push me to kill who's that girl sleeping with my man and i can kill my man too because he fools me.

I don't believe in here-says.It would be much better for me to catch him in the act.This way,he can't deny what he has done since the proof is right in front of me.

I really have no clue what I would do. Sure, I would confront my husband about it, and I would certainly be hurt, but otherwise, I'm really not sure what I would do, or say, or react, if my husband had done this.

I'm glad to hear this didn't happen to you but feel bad for the other person as well. As for this situation, it would depend on the person who comes and tells me about this. If I had my own suspicions beforehand and someone comes and confirms by saying this then I would investigate further to find out the real truth. Also, it would depend if the friend who comes and tells me about it, is he/she credible and trustworthy? But, if a few other people also said the same thing then I would believe them i guess and I would definitely be upset about it and confront my husband and find out the truth...

One person speaking up, I won't believe. Two or more people speaking up, yes I'll believe them. Take a look at this: Why would they tell such things when they know that they could ruin your relationship? That's the easiest part, to believe... the hardest? what will she do with her husband? If it's just a boyfriend, that would be much easier, but it's marriage that's at stake here. We can't just make impulsive decision out of it. One way to do it, PRAY. Then talk to your husband CALMLY. Ask him to tell the truth. If you feel that he's lying or whatever your opinion is, that's besides the point. At the end of the day, no matter how many times you doubt, you think if he's telling the truth or not, it would still be your decision... Your decision is your decision. No one can tell you what to do. Pray and follow your heart.

My first reaction would be , I didn't know he was gay! Most of my friends are men! Actually I wouldn't care. I Wouldn't comfort him because he Would lie! and it is his secret , not mind that was spread. And I probably had stopped sleeping with him Long ago.Any marriage I would have would not be love based.But it is different if you still love the guy, this would hurt and the best thing to do is leave. If he can sleep with one of your friends , he has no respect for you.

I found that my husband was sleeping around i would leave him. People that are outside the situation are usually able to see things that the people in it can't. I am very straight forward about cheating. I communicate my feelings and what I expect and I doubt I would be in a relationship with someone that didn't act menogamus. If they were players I wouldn't waste my time. Best to be sure they know what is exptected before you commit.

I have to make an investigation first. If i am the one who got this call.. I will see and observer everything that my husband did in all his activity. I hope with this way i can find the truth or this could be a rumor to falldown my hubby or to break our relation

If I was married and this happen I would divorce my husnabd after I confront him. To me cheating is unexcusable! It shows me the husband doesn't care,respect or love his wife! It also means marriage means nothing to him! I would not be able to forgive him much less trust him again! That is what I would do!

of course i would not confront my husband. since, i need an evidence before ask him. maybe, if i have money would pay an investigator to follow my husband and take some evidence. it s then i could tell to him directly that he is cheating. it s hard to believe what other people are saying without me seeing it personally. so would not argue with my husband without supporting evidence. i know some men have peers which have a bad influence and they likely drink in bar and rent a girl for there gimmicks. not all the time i could see a man activities and they do it for fun and nothing seriously emotion that is attached. that still forgiven but when he take a girl most of the time then it is time to confront that he have a mistress. if that happen this would be subject to file him against adultery.

I'm not yet married but having a husband like that I would surely divorce that guy and I don't know what to do with that friend maybe excommunicate with her I guess. Anyway I just that It won't happen to me in the future.

Who ever thought we must directly ask our Partner is it true on the first time. Don't hide any thinks with the partner. In this case i never ask a Question we need to trust each other. Then only the unwanted things never happen in our Life. The life has need to go Smooth then openly share everythink with the Life Partner.

if it is only because of lust, it still hurts, but can be forgiven in time, but if the husband is already in love with the friend, gosh, that is so mind shuttering, and it is so like slitting the knife straight to your heart, that moment you would like to sleep for one hundred years and forget about it or something like that....i dont know what will i do, to accept and forgive is so low, they should do something better to give me back my self esteem. geez, sue them for concubinage.

Beat him and ask questions later. Seriously my ex and his first wife had a couple they grew up with and always went out together. While we were married my now ex found out his best friend had slept with his wife. The catch 22 was not whether they could get over that and keep the friendships but that there was a son born around the same time as this happened. Well to make a long story short, my ex (poor guy) was on evening shift and they lived down the street from his wife's childhood sweetie. So it was easy for her to see him too. Guess who the baby boy turned out to be? Her child hood sweetie. My husband and his friends did get over the hurdle and remained friends but it was a cool relationship for quite awhile. There just seems to be no morals anymore on any level.

I would have no other choice but to confront him with what i've heard, even though he no doubt would deny it.but at least if he is cheating, he will realize i'm not in the dark about it. IMO, why would friends of mine or worse,a friend of HIS,tell me something like this if it weren't true even though there may be 2 reasons, 1.they are jealous of my relationship and want to see it end(i reject this) or 2.they feel badly for me and think i deserve better, which seems more likely. Either way my trust in him would be terribly shaken and i would have to decide whether to stay with him knowing he was cheating or,take what these people are telling me to heart and leave him, not a very easy choice to make.