Sudden change of Gender

Of course you can change her, try to find her a boyfriend that match her. Make sure he can makes her fall in love with him though it takes much time. Bring her to beauty salon to get beauty treatment and remind her how beauty she was, how interesting she was. Ask her help to do girls part in the house and then tell her in a nice way how bad your feeling right now and how you miss your little sister, tell her that you feel that you've lost the most important part in your life,a sister. Tell her how you hope she can change and be someone you want to protect . I know it won't be easy and need a patience, but don't give up.

Good day princess051585, As I have read your post, I am trying to figure out every detail of the subject matter. Putting my self in your place thinking, what if I am her sister. Well, first of all, I will try to approach my sister why those situation happened. Perhaps, a tremendous situation was happened that lead her to change gender. A heart broken relationship per se. Or might be, a traumatic lovelife that she cannot handle at all that leads her to change her lifestyle. Too many instances that might arise why she have done that. Then after approaching her, from there, I will do my second move if I will going to convince her to be back and be a lady again or will just support her as it is. For me, I will know the reasons first before jumping into the second move. And, if my second move does not work out, I will just support her to what she did, but it does not mean I will tolerate her to go and get another girlfriend in the future. After all, she is still my sister and nobody will understand and love her aside from me and my family.

Sure,you can change her.She is really pure woman,God created her in that woman gender. It is sin,abominable to God about that,God does not create any tomboy,bayot etc. Just people do what they want,and rebel God...But if God will do something to let them realize, i am sure they will face the painful consequences.. You can tell,convict her through about it is strong God sins hate..Not good...thanks

that is shocking..maybe that is really how she truly feels back then but she just tried to conceal it by joining beauty pageants. i think it would be hard to get her back to be feminine or convince if being a lesbian is who she really is and what she truly feels. as far as i know if someone is lesbian or gay, it's not really that easy to make them to a real man or woman anymore..it's hard to force because then they will not be really happy and at peace with it. being able to show out who they really are and what they feel can set them free and as hard as it maybe for us, family to accept this, we just have to accept and love them for who they are.

I think that's nothing you can say or do to change her back to normal. Indeed, she doesn't choose to be lesbian or anything, she is just being who she really is. As a family member, we should respect, love and support whoever she is. By the way, gay and lesbian are very common since the ancient time, we couldn't "change" them just like we couldn't turn a normal person to gay. Perhaps you can try to understand their needs and thinking, so to keep the family and sister's bonding.

There is nothing that you can say or do. If you love your sister, you will support her and show her the love that she needs. A person does not 'turn gay' or 'turn lesbian', all she's doing now, if it's not a cry for attention, is living how she's always wanted to live instead of living up to the expectations of her family and friends. She is who she is, she was born that way and you should not try to change her, not if you care about her. It will only drive you apart and you will lose the love of your sister. The best thing that you can do is support her. If it is a cry for attention or a passing phase, then she will change back by herself and in her own time. If not, then just go with the flow.