There are guys who only wants nothing but...bleep!
By cleverland
@cleverland (150)
Philippines
March 7, 2012 12:34pm CST
There's this guy that I've dated for a week or two. He was really nice at first, we hang out, yellow cab, had coffee and he made huge adjustments for me when it comes to schedule.
We clicked actually. I saw how caring he was. How nice. He worked at night and would stay up until 2pm the next day just to meet me and have coffee or something. Then here comes halfway the second week...He was thankful.. he sent me a message thanking me for meeting him and all that stuff...Late night, 11 pm, he asked me...when are we going to have bleep?
I flipped! I flipped! How in the bleep bleep would you ask me to have a night with you? WHAT THE BLEEP! YOU"RE A COMPLETE BLEEP! gawd!
Piece of advice: Never trust a person, never fall until you reach several months. If in anyway, he raised an issue relating to BLEEP or if you're conversation always ends up with BLEEP,then dump him, that's definitely all he wants from you. Believe me, he's the second guy who tried on me. And I know better now.
Ma ladies, take care, protect your heart at all times:)
I'd love to hear you're short flame love affair.
Sorry I had to use a lot of bleeps..you know what it is..lol!
4 responses
@marieandtim (99)
• United States
8 Mar 12
thats all men think about it is hard to find anyone nice these days
@cleverland (150)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
Most men probably, but not all...There are men in my family and I'm pretty sure we would eventually encounter someone who might be different, men who are as good as our father and brothers.
Did you have any bad experience with guys? It seems like you had.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
hi there cleverland,
with regard to your topic discussion, well, i remember that once in my life, have met a guy having the same attitude. that, after a weeks of dating and meeting him, i decided to drop him. as i was really annoyed to the things that he did. aside from that, i have cutted out our communication plus i have given back all the things that he have given to me. as i don't want to keep any thing that could bring him back to my memory.
@cleverland (150)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
Good choice girl...We don't want to keep memories of those people. Were you in love with him?
You know I made a really good decision when I decided to not letting him know my exact whereabouts. My work, my house. He didn't know them..It was a great thing because we don't know...he might be up for something. I go home almost midnight weekdays because of my work schedule, I wanna be safe and all...
One thing to all the single ladies here who are dating: If it's just a new guy..Barely know the guy, NEVER let them know everything about you...NEVER let them send you home on the first date especially when he's driving. Let your friends know him. And it's better if you're a group when going out:)
@flamez3r0 (319)
• Puerto Rico
7 Mar 12
I agree with you, if someone asks out of the blue without minding the mood, then it's not a good idea. Besides, in two weeks you can't even trust a person enough to be sure they don't have some std. I'm a man, and after reading this I'm not sure if I want to laugh at his desperation or cry for the end of those times when men didn't try to guilt women into sleeping with them. So at least, allow me to apologize for my gender :).
@cleverland (150)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
You made me laugh too..LOL!
flamez3r0===I LOVE YOUR COMMENTS!!! hahah!!! Well, not all men are like that. I've had past relationships with guys who are really nice. Men with that breed rarely exists. HAHAHA!!!!
You are perfectly a 100 percent right. Even before that happen, we have previously talked about topics like that. I guess I was wrong too for letting that conversation further. I should've followed my instinct and flipped him.
Anyways, that's experience for me...I've learned my lessons and I'm thankful I wasn't dumb! hahaha!!!!
I just wonder, do some girls do these too? I mean like not exactly, but you know players?
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
7 Mar 12
How old is he? maybe he just don't have any experience with women... that's why he speak like robot who doing some tasks... after job 1 done, ask when can i do job 2.... LOL.. it's a good thing he asked first
@cleverland (150)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
HAHAHA!!!!! I love you guys...you are awesome!
Yeah, at least he asked...you know the funny thing was, he looks so harmless, but then when we exchange messages, he raised topics like that...out of nowhere he sent a message asking me about it..and I almost lost it..I was like...what the...Anyways, he's 30 already and I won't be surprised if he stays that way until he gets old... He told me he had several relationship and they had gone long like 3 year relationship, 2.. and now I wonder if everything that he said was even real...
I just don't care anymore..I just laugh about it.
