Do You Like Driving? Is It A Different Experience To When You First Started?
By Janey1966
@Janey1966 (24170)
Carlisle, England
March 7, 2012 7:36pm CST
I've never taken a driving test. My instructor told me (after about 200 lessons in total) that I'd "never pass it so I'm not going to recommend you try."
The thing is; he was right!
So why did I put myself through all that pain and unnecessary expense?
I'm a martyr!
Seriously though..no way would I be any good as a driver and it's got nothing to do with me being a woman (honest)..I dunno..other drivers scare me and when I took lessons there was no Facebook or Twitter to distract people from looking at the ROAD, so heaven knows what I'd think of other drivers now.
How many years have you been driving for? Do you enjoy driving (my hubby has been driving a long time since he was 17) and have you noticed any changes in behaviour when out and about, whether it be yourself or not? Is Road Rage a problem?
I would stick to my bike if a) I still had it and b) there were speed restrictions in Carlisle. Neither apply!
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14 responses
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
8 Mar 12
Things have changed drastically since I started driving. My father taught me to drive a stick shift at age 13. We took some of the old country, gravel roads in another state and it worked very well. I've been driving 52 years and have a perfect record. No tickets either. The best way to describe the roads today with all the phones and text messaging going on behind the wheel is to be a good defensive driver. I watch what the other drives do and never anticipate they will make good decisions. Wish they would ban text messaging in our state. I have seen some close calls and generally it was someone coming in my lane when I was already there. My brakes and horn work very well.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
There was a news item over here going on about people checking their status on Facebook whilst driving. Why can't they wait until they get to where they want to be? What's wrong with these people?
There you go. Road Rage and I don't even drive!!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
One of the things I find comical over here is seeing drivers behind the wheel and they're too small for the vehicle. Do you know what I mean? The roof is about 3 feet above their heads and from the side you can barely see them at all. I cannot understand why someone would want to buy a car that's so obviously not made for them. What was the salesman thinking of? Er..probably a sale!
Haha!
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
My first real test drive was with my best friend in his mini van which later had brake problems and lead me to almost hitting and probably killing three people drinking on a sidewalk. It was really funny and heart-pumping experience. I was driving a bit fast until I realized I miss the turn the I should have taken, I was hitting the breaks and tried to still make the turn but the breaks were not working well, so I had to step on it several times,like pumping it with my foot. I was not going to make the road and was heading straight towards three people who were drunk by their looks but had absolutely turned sober when they saw this vehicle approaching them. Fortunately the break worked just in time and the car stopped a few inch in front of them. I actually laughed as I saw their expressions, but I did apologize sincerely. It was so dumb of me, and I took it as a lesson.
One thing I noticed about me is road rage problem. I think I have this because I easily get mad when I'm not driving, I was sure I'd be way madder if I was the one on the driver's seat.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
Honestly after that incident, my best friend and I were talking and laughing about the looks on those people's faces. They really were shocked and probably sobered up on the spot. I was telling my friend what a waste their drinking had become because they probably were drinking to get drunk and now I killed it for them.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
LOL! It sounds like something out of a film. Ha! I bet the drunk people sobered up REALLY QUICKLY when they realised they were (nearly) about to be run over!
Class!
@agent807 (751)
• United States
8 Mar 12
I learned how to drive when I was 15, took drivers training at 16, but because of where my birthday was, I didn't get a license until 17, so I have been driving legally for almost 15 years. I like driving when I am driving just for the sake of getting out, with no destination in mind. I know, these days it is not ecologically sound, but it is my stress reliever... well it used to be. When I can get out on the open road, I can enjoy driving, but commuting around the city, no. It is too stressful. I'm not the best driver as I do make mistakes, and dumb decisions some times. But these days, people are nuts, and those are just the people who are not on the phone. Adding telephones only makes things slightly worse, but people just overall are not paying attention, and they are too aggressive. They are doing all sorts of wild things on the road. It is as if they have deregulated the rules of the road. It is hard to enjoy driving when the first rule is to stay alive.
@agent807 (751)
• United States
9 Mar 12
Yes, the price of fuel is putting a damper on things. My last car was decent on mileage, but I just hated that engine being so small because the power was higher up on revs so it had to be wound up like a motorcycle. My current car, I realized I was sacrificing fuel economy for power, but now I realize because of my addiction to the power, that it is quite a drinker. So I have to be more efficient in my errands. I will have to get my motoring fix with a bicycle, or when I save up enough money for a good blast down a road. Or throw the bike in the trunk, and find a good place to ride it. Riding in the city is too rough
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
I hope you find somewhere suitable to ride your bike. I used to ride my bike to work (not here but in the Town I used to live in) and I loved it. However, year on year the traffic increased and it could get quite scary if I was half-asleep lol.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
Yes, hubby used to take me out on drives out into the countryside. You're right, it's relaxing and I could tell he enjoyed the driving side of it immensely. We can't do that now though due to the cost of fuel.
@changjiangzhibin89 (16760)
• China
9 Mar 12
Over here,most of people at my age can't drive unless they are drivers by profession.When I was in my youth,few family had private car.Nowadays,more and more families have them,but I get along in years and have retired,grant that I can afford to buy it, but what need is there for me to ask for trouble?
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
Yes, I believe car ownership is a sign of wealth over in China and it's rare to see loads of bikes on the road now, which, I think is a shame actually as they were being environmentally friendly before it got "fashionable."
@changjiangzhibin89 (16760)
• China
10 Mar 12
Yes,bike was once characteristic of us ,which is not only beneficial to our health but being environmentally friendly.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
8 Mar 12
well, first of all happy driving...i experienced the same though i did not take so many lessons...i took the trials and then took a break on my own and then after 1.5 yr...got the tempo to drive and there i was on road driving confidently...i tell u that was very surprising to me as i drove almost after 1.5 yrs and just a gesture to test my ability...my hubby though had a different experience...he drove after good nos of classes but then again he did not drive immediately after the lessons ....and then one day ....morning he also drove the car and drove to his office...we both love driving now and rotate the driving seat....:)
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
"Rotate the driving seat." Love it my friend and welcome to MyLot!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
Yes, I gotchya..but I prefer the way you described it first time round.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
9 Mar 12
i guess u got my point...i meant "changing the driver...rotating the person on the driver seat".....
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
8 Mar 12
I got my drivers license over 35 years ago and still drive today...I think I still drive very much the same as when I started! I Am a cautious driver I never[ so far] had an accident caused by me and never had a speed ticket! road rage is a mayor problem so if some one beeps the horn at me I just keep driving and ignore the cranky driver.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
Good for you, it's the only way to deal with road rage isn't it? Don't lower yourself to their level, so-to-speak.
My Dad didn't learn to drive until he was 50. This was due to his so-called workmate wanting my Dad's share of jobs he was doing on the side to make extra money (as he used to give him a lift) so Dad thought, "Sod this, I'll learn how to drive myself" and he did..at night! All his lessons were taken at night but I don't know if his test was during the day or not. Probably.
Unfortunately, he had to give up his car a couple of years ago (he's now 74, nearly 75) so I guess it's just as well because his legs are bad and I don't think he'd be as confident as he used to be. He was a great driver when he was "on it" though, which was most of the time. For his age he actually drove quite fast!
@mysticmaggie (2498)
• United States
8 Mar 12
I'm been driving forty-eight years and really hate it. Maybe it's because I've had 7 car accidents - none my fault and I feel as though there's a target on my car.
I think I would be quite happy to go back to horse and buggy. The Amish seem to have the right answer for saving on gas!
Hugs,
Maggie
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
They do don't they and their horses are so well looked after too.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
I learned how to drive when I was 14, and it was a trial and error type of learning. I didn't enroll in any driving school. Back then, most people here in my country learn to drive without having a licensed instructor to teach them. Usually relatives or friends who know how to drive are the ones who teach us. One thing I have noticed about my driving is that I now tend to drive in a sort of cruising manner as compared before when I felt I just had to rev the engine up. I was actually a bit impatient and had to always overtake slow moving cars. I guess I mellowed down as I grew older :)
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Mar 12
In my last job, I found myself driving most of the time. I would have to visit (problematic) suppliers, and I would be up and down the interstate highway. I did like it. Everytime I'm out, meant I was not in the office. And I like finding little shops and restaurants in small towns.
And except for a scrape a couple of years after I started driving, I've never been in an accident (knock on wood)!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Mar 12
Yes, if my hubby had gone for the salesman's post within the office he'd be able to get out and about more. Unfortunately, he wasn't confident enough to go for it (which I can understand as he likes to play it safe as most of us do in the workplace) but this new salesman is rubbish by all accounts and hubby gets more work in through word of mouth than anyone else. Pity it's not reflected in his wage packet each month but at least he won't be sacked anytime soon!
@kareemadivina (1230)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
I want to learn to drive but have not yet taken it seriously to take a license.I really want to know how to drive so I can use it whenever emergencies arise or safety concerns.However, I'm not planning to be a professional driver.You're right,it's so tough for women to drive especially that there are too many undisciplined drivers nowadays.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
21 Mar 12
I don't suppose there is any rush. Mind you, I've no idea how old you are.
@IrishGal77 (260)
• Ireland
9 Mar 12
Hi Janey,
Like you, I never taken a driving test and I haven't taken any lessons either. It's not that I don't have an interest in learning to drive, I'd like to be able to, but it never was a priority for me throughout the years. I do think I'm scared of learning how to drive and even more scared of other drivers. I worry that I'd be *too careful* and provoke an accident that way.
I manage getting where I need to mostly by foot and when the occasion calls for it take a taxi, which is usually at least twice a week. Getting out of town is a problem so I'd have to go by bus or train.
IrishGal77 :)
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
9 Mar 12
Hello! I've been to southern Ireland (Dublin and the surrounding areas) but not Northern Ireland. Which bit are you situated in..it's quite a big country isn't it? Surprisingly so but it's beautiful and..er, the weather is extremely changeable. I didn't even take a jacket in August. That proved to be a mistake!!
@SassyBrat (463)
• Canada
8 Mar 12
I got my license when I was 29 years old. I failed it the first of 3 times. I passed it after I made my grandmother a promise on her dying bed that I would get it for her. She had told me that she never wanted me to be dependent on anyone as my grandfather was very dependent on her for giving him directions when he drove and she never got her license.
I have had car accidents and after that, I very nearly gave up driving, but after a period of time and slowly making myself get back behind the wheel, I realized that driving saved my life.
I am at a loss if I can't drive, I have had issues with taking the bus and no longer will do that.
@ziqiwang (9)
• China
8 Mar 12
i like driving very much,and the fast speed make me excieted.my first experience of driving was dramatic.4 years ago,when my old sister studied and practiced driving,my uncle called me to try it,before that time, i had never drived and even knew few about it.but i did,and a little better than my sister,it made me feel good.since then i started driving.