successful relationship

what you have said isn't really a successful relationship . falling in love many times with the same person is just waste if she doesn't accepts you .the whole world is filled with many colourfull butterflys. choose your favorite colour . successful relationship are those in which partner trust each other like they have never trusted anyone before and mutual understanding .

I think when the hunt is over and men have what they want (or thought they want) the fun is over and so is the interest. The relationship/marriage makes them feel secure. That person will always be there for them no matter what and they pick up their own life (going out with friends). As long as the woman will hug him, pamper him, hug his ego he will feel like a king. She will give up her life and friends. If she gives up on him because he takes her for granted he will look for someone new to hunt (which makes him feel great), blame her for that (it's her fault she changed). I agree that if the fish is catched people do change. They go back to their own life partly. They pay less attention to eachother, there is no need to hug on the street or keep eachothers hands since everybody knows you are involved. But it's a small thing to text someone some words, to brighten up a day that easily. It won't cost a lot of your time if you want to you can even do it on the toilet! So being so busy, running out of time are lame excuses for that. Pity is most people only find out what they really have if the relationship is over. Then suddenly they speak about love, not able to live without the other person, etc. Keep this in mind if you want a succesfull relationship and not run out when it feels a bit lame or you are having a hard time. Since you are not the only one and hard times belong to life as well.

ya there are many reasons for the relationship that doesn't last long.... but the main reason is that it purely depend on the mentality of the each and every personality... nowadays both the boys and gals are cheating each others.... true boy is cheating buy a gal.. and true gal is cheating by a boy... that's the fate happening around here

Yes it is true all that you have said but to recreate love you always have to be innovative and discover new things to make the other surprised and happy ! Moreover texting , flirting and dating are the key to keep the love alive. Take timeouts from your routine work and spend some time with your loved one once a week to make them feel special. Go on a date once in a while like you did when your relationship was new . So i believe that to be in a successful and happy relationship you have to keep trying to keep the fire alive and fuel it for life.(that would also give you one reason and meaning to your life :) )

They said part of lasting relationship is the element of surprise. The excitement that comes with it. Doing things apart will give you opportunity to talk about something when you both get home and sat at the couch. I remember that scene from GLEE when Will and his wife Terri were eating dinner. Both of them work at the same school, so they see each other 24 hours. They were eating and Terri opened up the conversation by describing the enormous ants that she saw on the street that day. And Will said something like, it could be the weather or some stuff, (can't remember) funny! LOL! But come to think of it, it's true. Marriage doesn't mean that you have to do everything together. You give yourself time to be alone at some point. Do your activities, so at the end of the day, you'll end up in each others arms, talking about your day and how excited you'd be to listen to each others' story.