Losing hope, so depress right now.

Don't be down, all of us have had a crappy experience. We all know for a fact that we lose our parents in time and of course people come and go in our lives that is why it is expected that friends will sometimes be unavailable. Even though there's a lot of crappy things that we have to go through in this lifetime still we are alive, can still breath and do things. That at least we should be thankful for. You said are a dreamer, that is good since you have already dreamt of yourself achieving things. Now the next thing to do is to become an achiever, it would be easy to become because you already have established your dreams. Sorry to hear about what you have gone through but don't lose hope because there is always another day that we could look up into.

Why don't you start again? Why don't you continue with your life and find a job? Or maybe you can start a business. You can earn here online and that can be a capital for your business.

Hi bulastika! I am so sorry to hear you are feeling so down. I think you did a good thing for your mother and if there is any such thing as rewards in life or karma...you will have a ton of them. I know that it can be hard to be burdened by debt but it is time to get out there and do your thing now. Pay the bills as you can. That time passed is just that...it has passed. Now is the time to do what you want or can do to make your dreams come true. Good luck and don't lose hope!

Don't be down, all of us have had a crappy experience. We all know for a fact that we lose our parents in time and of course people come and go in our lives that is why it is expected that friends will sometimes be unavailable. Even though there's a lot of crappy things that we have to go through in this lifetime still we are alive, can still breath and do things. That at least we should be thankful for. You said are a dreamer, that is good since you have already dreamt of yourself achieving things. Now the next thing to do is to become an achiever, it would be easy to become because you already have established your dreams. Sorry to hear about what you have gone through but don't lose hope because there is always another day that we could look up into.

the fact that you are still alive and breathing is a blessing and as long as you are alive there is always hope. remember that nothing is impossible with God and that He will not give you any burden you can not lift. He is just preparing you to be stronger and to be able to face life's challenges. never lose hope dear and always think positive. positivity will help you achieve things you want. go out of your shell and explore the world.

I feel your pain bulastika, your just like the best friend of my big brother. He was able to get hired more than the years of yours. But my big brother gives support to his best friend non-stop. Starting from checking the resume until, going on the company to file resume, apply and for interview and from passing the requirements. If I were you don't stop looking for a job! Life is equal to hope. So when you loose hope meaning you life is zero. Don't do that.

I am so sorry to hear your story. Yes, life if full of hardship and adversity, sometimes we have to take it. I know taking care of a family member with serious illness means what. Because my mother also suffered from illness for three years before she passed away. Though i have not being with her all the time, but i know the hardship. Illness can bring us heavy burden, not only financially, but also mentally. But you know, i wish i have been with my mother in the period of her illness. Maybe we must suffer the burden, our family member need our accompany in the last days. Life is hard, but don't lose hope. You know, as my experience, every thing has a hard beginning, take my online jobs for example, at first month, i can only made cents. Little by little, my english and writing skills are improved and now i find it is not hard to make some dollars in several days, though the few dollars alone can't support my life, but it tells me that with practice, your skills can be improved, thereby your ability of earning money can be improved.

Don't lose hope. Since you take care of your mom, God has a reward for you. Try looking for job and pray that you'll be employed. God is good, He will give you earnings and settle your debts. Just call on him, pray and be patient in looking for job. Good luck and God bless...

yes hope is something that keeps all alive. The day we lose hope then consider its the end of the world.Its very depressing those days when we are down and hopeless.We are in a no man's land and dont know what to do. I keep motivating myself thinking about good things that would happen to me if i became successful

Hi there. I also feel the same way as you do.I think we are not the only ones feeling this way right now. There are lots of people out there who feels so depressed because of their present situations. But lets hold on there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep on looking and soon you will find it. Keep praying and never lose hope. Try to get through depression and soon we will be okay. I hope you will fine soon. Take care my friend.

Don't get depressed, my friend. These type of situation comes in life. That's why life is a sort of war with problems. Problems come in everyone's life. We have to fight against them. Take it as a challenge. I am also a dreamer like you.. (perhaps everyone is.. I think) But it takes really really hard work to make dreams true. Because as we try to get behind it, we come to realize the problems in the way. There are a lot of obstacles in a way to success. We still need to find the way and we also need not to lose hope. I will suggest you to find a job as soon as possible so you will feel better. To be happy we need a feeling that we are doing something good. So join somewhere, take interest in some hobby. That is the way to come out of depression. Thanks for reading my opinion.

the fact you are a nobody now and lost hope is because you are a dreamer. Exactly like you say yourself. You just sit there and dream and find excuses to stand up and fight. You have no goal in your life and blame again the fact you took care of your mother, it took longer as 3 months. Instead of sitting their, complaining and dreaming you should kick your own a.. Be active! make a list of what you want or can do or like. Go search for ways to get there or solutions (you can use the internet for that as well). Make a plan what to do, how to get there, keep focused on the goal. And remember there are many ways you can take. And even if you don't have a payed job you can volunteer too! It's a way to meet people to make contacts and you never know where that road will lead you to. BTW I don't believe you have so many friends, if..those friends would still be there. They did not so they were just schoolmates, no friends. And friends, real friends, you can make everywhere unless you are too lazy to get out of your bed and outside your house. Stop blaming your mom for not dying withing 3 months time. Did she ever blame you for all the things she was not able to do because you were in her life? Asking for attention and care day and night?!

don't lose hope. whatever you want to achieve i know you can achieve it if only you have all motivation to achieve that dream of yous. just keep on trying