The hardest thing to do is to say….Goodbye MyLot, I have to go :(
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
March 8, 2012 4:28pm CST
I don’t want to make this last topic an emotional one, but I just can’t help it.
In my last 3 years here in MyLot, I’ve found friends and family here.
I feel loved, cared and what else….it’s time to say goodbye.
I never wish to leave, but some good things never last.
I want to say sorry and please don’t feel bad dear friends and family.
It’s just happen that “perfect situation must go wrong”
Looking back, I know there are so many things to consider that can hold me back.
But things won’t change for the moment, I’ve made up mind.
For the last time, I want to smile and laugh
I want to share my emotion with you guys,
Don’t ask me any reason why I need to do this,
It hurts to leave everyone, but I need some space away from MyLot.
Just like the others who leave, I know someday
I will find my way back…back to a big family called MyLot
A place that plays a big part in my life, has always a special space in my heart,
Vivere MyLot!
jaiho® jaiho® jaiho®
March 09,2012 6:25am PT
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33 responses
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
9 Mar 12
hi sis. i know it's hard to say goodbye. and it's really hurting us to see someone leave. specially in this big family as you said. anyway, whatever the reason you have, good luck and take care. you know where to find me in this cyberspace. missing you.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello neil,
I hope you're doing fine especially your health.
Hugs for zayzay and hope to see you again in person...
Who knows, I might be visiting my birthplace- one day
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
Hi. We are sad that you will leave in here.But you did not tell any reason.Is that forever?
I hope that you are in safe while leaving in my lot.And hoping that when your way to go away with us,you enjoy ahead your life,and i know you had a lot of good experiences and hope you remember those good and bad moments .Thanks for the time,enjoy ahead!God always take care of you!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
hello bwm,
Oh, I just realized your username almost sounds like "BMW" :)
There is no need to write my reason, it will only hurt me more.
I want to leave this place with a smile...at smile, for the last time :)
Keep mylotting and see you again
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Okay..it's personal..Okay take care , i know you re same country with me,and live in davao.Enjoy,be happy and hope you always safe.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Mar 12
I don't know why you will leave. It makes me sad. You know I have also joined in Mylot for several years and I have seen many friends come and leave. This is sad to see them leave. I hope you will sometimes come back and check here. Then I will regard that you are just away for some time but it is not a leave. Have a good day!
I love China
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello youless,
There are things that suddenly came unexpectedly.
I never thought this time will come.
I've never plan to leave this place, but circumstances pushed me to go :(
Thanks and have a great weekend
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 12
My dear Jai sis, what is wrong with you that you have to leave here? Indeed, it is a big surprise to me, since you are one of the very active members in here. Are you planning a big vacation from here? Hopefully, after you are fully energized, do remember to come back here again. We all miss you a lot. By the way, hope you enjoy yourself during your break from here.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
sis
I know you will be surprised.
I am so sorry :(
I just need some space.
I won't forget you...
Take care always
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@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
It's really nice knowing you, girl! We were able to exchange some text messages too :D I'll really miss you and your posts. I hope you can get back here (you should!) We love you girl!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello kei,
I still have your number dear and hope to see you in person -one day
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I thought this is another misleading title from you but nope I'm sad that you have to leave myLot, but I do hope you're not leaving the other site. I am just wondering why you had to decide to leave after all being here for quite a very long time... You've been one of my good friends here and I will surely miss you. Hope you'll find you way back here at the soonest. We all will miss you jai
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
en
I know this may sounds another confusing topic from me :(
But, this time it's for real.
It hurts, this place becomes a part of me of my daily routine.
It never came to me that I will leave this place one day...and this is it
Take care always and we're still seeing each other...you know where
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Mar 12
Hi Jai!
I have a feeling that it should be a 'joke' that you are going to leave mylot and fellow mylotters. (It was festival of Holi yesterday here in India, so you might be playing a prank with lotters ........lol!)
I am not at ready to believe that you could say Goodbye to mylot.
or
you are testing fellow mylotters to see what would be there reactions, if you declare that you are living mylot for good........ lol!
Needless to say that cheerful, bubbly, charming and sweet Friends like you are rare on mylot and I just can not imagine losing anyone of them in the sense that they won't be part of my discussions in future.
If you are damn serious about your decision to say Goodby then it will hurt me very badly and your absence from mylot will be hard to bear.
I wish that you do not leave mylot. You could take your time to re-consider your decision and you could joint us as and when time permits you.
Hope you will come out with a positive answer.
dpk
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Mar 12
I am still considering your post as a 'dream' and am not ready to believe that it could be a 'real decision'.
You did not seek permission of your friends to leave? Did you?
Your friends have some right on you and you need to take their approval before taking a major decision, specially when your decision will affect them also (your friends include me, you know it).
If you allow me and ask me - I would never wish that you should leave this place because gems like you are rare and hard to find here on mylot.
Am still hoping for a positive response and I am always optimistic.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello dpk,
How I wish this is just a dream, or one of my joke.
But, I sleep and wake up- and it's real.
I am still here, to have a little time with friends and everyone.
I will miss this place-
Have a great weekend
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
I know whatever your reason is your happy with it.
Good luck in your career and I hope someday you will be back.
I know some who leaves mylot can't refuse to come back when they miss there friends here. Like me I've been away for 3 yrs. and I'm here again.
Have a nice day. God Bless to you.
Take care!!!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello lyn,
Thanks, thu we've only given a short time since you're back,I will miss you :)
Hope to see you more active when I'm back
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 12
jaiho this is wo mens day why must you leave,you are making me
weep. I loved responding to your discussions and having you
respond back. so many leave and say oh I will return but
never do. it makes me feel so sad as if something is wrong
in your life thats making you do this and you sound sad
doing it.So do come back when life lets up a bit as we will
all wait and hope to see you again. friends are like silver
and gold, they are priceless.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
dear Hatley,
I haven't sleep the whole night.
It's 6:30am here in our place.
Just posting alone this topic is breaking me into pieces.
This place means a lot to me...so much to me...
I'll be back...I know I will
Take care of your health ma'm
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@god_is_good (683)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
At least, jaiho still can say goodbye. There are some who never had the time to say goodbye and just disappear.
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@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
9 Mar 12
Sorry to hear that you will be leaving MyLot. Hopefully you will return one day and we can catch up on discussions.
Until then, take care and God Bless.
Hugs Mary
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello MaryLynn,
Thanks for coming, your wishes give me one reason to smile
Take care too and have a great weekend
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Hello Jai-sis,
Just as a I was about to come back to this place, there's nothing really wrong about leaving mylot. you can always take a long break from here. look at me, since i got into that game addiction in facebook, i haven't had much time here, but since I've started getting bored to that place, i've started going back here again.
I found another hobby but it wasn't productive because i wasn't earning and learning at the same time. i think i need to stay here until i get a bit luck on getting a new job or something
we will miss you nonetheless.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
dear LK,
I wish I will only leave for a vacation, or be in-active.
But it's not my dear brother....
I am going to cancel this account...
@allknowing (136570)
• India
8 Mar 12
Nice to see that you have fought your addiction here which also means that your real world is beckoning you. All the best
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello ak,
Exactly!
I miss the real world
Thanks and have a good day
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello akp,
I will miss everyone....
I need to find my way back....sooner or later.
Hope it won't take a lifetime
Have a great weekend
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Noooooo!!! Huhu,I just got here again and I was expecting a jolly discussion from you but it was the opposite,I was shocked and saddened. I know I am not that active here but if I visit mylot,it is for sure that I visit my dear close friends' discussion and that include yours, my dear jai. I know it's hard to say goodbye as I don't want anyone to leave,as much as possible. I know I'm not in the position to ask you why you have to leave us,but for sure it's for the good.
I will for sure miss you, my dear jai. Please do come back soon.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello cutie,
What can I say
I never wish to leave- :(
I will miss you...for sure
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I know you will come back for us my dear jai.
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@veejay19 (3589)
• India
9 Mar 12
hey sis, abandoning your anna? Boo hoo hoo. Why? OK OK i won`t ask.Its your choice or are you pulling a fast one?Will miss you dear as you are the only one for me.Anyway,come back quickly after your 'rest'.Will wait for you eagerly.Hugs and cheers. your anna.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
awwww why po???
i haven't been to mylot lately because of work.. but i could never think of leaving mylot.
i would miss you miss jai and your witty posts...
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@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
9 Mar 12
Jane Beti
Are you kidding again?
If it is true, and you are leaving for purely personal reason , it is ok.
You are a grown up woman, better rethink and come back.
Blessings and hugs from Dada
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
9 Mar 12
Hi dear,
A bunch full of love and heart full of best wishes till we meet again, if happens and if not, it will remain for ever. Now I am thinking from the very biggining, I could have even ask what may be your name?
thanks
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
hello thanks,
Thanks, your username is very considerate :)
Thanks for wishing to know my name.
I will never be victorious (jaiho) never again.
Till we meet again and have a great weekend
@Tamosree1993 (1525)
• India
9 Mar 12
It is a very sad news to your mylot friends.
Best of luck to your future and have a good life.