Who is better...

I don't think you can compare this together. There is a world of difference between what women want and men want, or what they expect from life. Also.. when time passes by we change our goals, point of view or find out other things (like being a good human being) are way more important to us as high notes, a great carreer (since this all will end one day). I think women are thougher, they bare way more pain (and have about 10.000 more nerves so feel way more as men), they are able to swallow a lot, give up and in a lot. I think if it comes to reaching ones abitions men and women are equal. Most of us will never reach our ambition because if it comes to it we are not willing to fight for it (even we say we are), we waste time complaining or pointing fingers at someone else or blame our childhood, lack of money, parents, lack of contacts etc.

well as for my opinion it really depends on what field. let say in boxing, for me guys really standout and you can really feel the intensity of the fight unlike watching girls do the boxing, and in some cases like, pole dancing i think i prefer to watch girls do the dancing than guys ha ha, but seriously, i think it really depend on the preference of the people in the said field, cause let say in modeling some products its better to have a male model than female model right, and in some like being in a political field i think it looks tougher with male leaders than female. man i don't know now i'm confused ha ha

I don't think you can say who is better. There are really ambitious people of both genders out there. There are also lazy people an dpeople who jsut give up easy.