like no other me except me

Philippines
March 9, 2012 10:30am CST
I used to compare myself before to other people because that's how they let me see myself, I think I have been shouldering that long enough until I read lots of self help books and be with friends who are open minded to listen to me. And because of that, I have found answers. I shouldn't be comparing myself to others because I'm different and they are just my subject. In this world I am the object of my life and I have understand that now.
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@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
be in mind that everyone of us is unique. so w need to accept for who we are and not for who we are not. love yourself more because no other people can love you more than you could. i am glad you come to know who you are and accept it because God created you with a unique features and only you can have.
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• United States
9 Mar 12
Congratulations! I think it's wonderful that you understand that you are unique and special for the reason that there is no other person who is exactly like you. We all have strengths and we all have flaws and that's perfect. When you learn to love and accept yourself you make it easier for other people to love and accept you as well. Then you are in a position to live your life in a way that you naturally inspire others.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 12
It's a good lesson for everyone else as well. Each and everyone of us is unique in our own way. Sometimes we tried to please others by being someone we're not. We change our looks, the way we dress and refuse to see out of the box as we're afraid of not being accepted.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Mar 12
A good lesson and also good for others to know. There is NO reason to compare yourself with other, to be like someone else, to be one sheep in the cattle. We all are unique, we all have our own talents and it's great it is that way. Imagine how the world would look like if we all were the same! Not only boring but also no new invention would be done. I think the biggest lesson we all can learn is to accept ourself, to respect ourself, to love ourself, to take care of ourself (and our own needs). This is the way to happiness.
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@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Bravo! I am glad that you have finally accept who you are. That you are different and an irreplaceable being in this world. Often times we are busy trying to catch up with our role models that we neglect ourselves as equally unique being. Different and yet the same, that is what we all are. There is no need to compare ourselves to other people because no matter how we try we will never match up. It is good to have someone to look up to, not to copy them but to serve as an inspiration to do better. Good for you, at least now you realized it will no longer wasting your time chasing and for having found good friend who will accept you and are not judgmental.
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• Philippines
9 Mar 12
you should not compare yourself to others because i believe that everyone is unique you might see a boy with a body built for a fighter but you may not know that the real him wants girly stuffs, you might see a strong and aggressive woman but you don't know that inside her she is battling with cancer right those are some examples and little did you know that you are looking at an old lady that seems helpless without you knowing that she is yoga instructor ha ha
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@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
9 Mar 12
Comparison results in frustration as they say it, so never ever compare yourself with others. So keep on doing deeds in which you believe in.