too much love can kill?

March 9, 2012 3:32pm CST
such a bad bad day being in a relationship for almost three years with the person i thought his the right man for me until his not contented that im just the one women in his life! it sucks! everyday i pray to god to bless my relationship with the man i truly love,im very very thankful and faithful didn't even text my friends because i don't want him to get mad at me just to avoid misunderstandings and so on. i now man is polygamous by nature but i just want to be love the way i love him just the way i do by not flirting to different people.and remembering the promises iv made..:(
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@adam79 (4)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 12
You must be more patient in this situation..You must think more positif of what just happen..You must think what happen today can make you better for tomorrow..
10 Mar 12
with positive thingking will lead us to positive action. so everithing we get will be positive
@kajal1992 (354)
• India
14 May 12
Yes if you have loved someone truly then its damn sure that it will kill you every moment,if he loves you the same as you do ,if you have faith in him as he do and vice versa then no problem, it will not kill you, it will make you feel your life like a heaven, The problem arise due to many reason such as lack of love from both side, inequality in faith, cheating and many other circumstances. Myself too is suffering from it from last 11 months. So please my advice is don't love anybody that much, that you can't live without him , until you damn sure that his happiness lies in you.
@no_ming (137)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
Most guys are like that they are not contented in one.. Maybe you and Him are not really meant to each other. You must have to thank God for it.
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
yes too much love can kill.. learn to love yourself more.. before giving much to a person, leave enough part for yourself.. so when that person decides to let go, you're not left hanging..
@cnDaos (8)
16 Apr 12
Sometimes, even when we love in the best way we could, it's never an assurance that our partners would do the same. I guess that's why when we allow ourselves to love it means taking the risk that our love may not be reciprocated. And when we find ourselves in that situation, it doesn't only hurt us, but it makes us feel less because we've invested so much in a relationship that didn't work out in the end. But then again, nobody really comes out of a relationship empty handed. Because I believe that every relationship, even the ones that failed, would make us grow to become the best person for the one that we'd spend the rest of our lives with. :)
• Philippines
14 May 12
Too much love can kill is true but it depends on the situation. I have experienced being cheated before and I know it is not a good feeling. I am not married to the man so I opt to leave him instead no matter how much I love him because I can no longer trust him so there really is no point if we stayed together. I must say that as a woman, we should love ourselves first. Sometimes, no matter how hard it is to leave someone because we love them so much, we should have enough courage to do it because it is the best for us.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
9 Mar 12
I think this is a common problem, women think and love differently to men, women can be very happy just making their man happy and love one man alone but a lot of men find it not so good with one woman and I think this is where nature has got it wrong, and I don't know what the answer is, men and women love from different parts of their being.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
9 Mar 12
I don't know why more men can't be the way you want. I'm a man and am not polygamous at all by nature. I don't understand. It took me forever to even meet someone that wanted to spend her life with me. Of course I did live with my mom for a very long time. But now, I am with someone and wouldn't even think of touching anyone else. Well, OK, maybe I might think about it but would never do anything
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
10 Mar 12
i don't now about kill but it can certainly mess someone up. love can work both ways. if someone puts another through so much b.s. then you began to wonder if they love you or are they just screwed up. either way there not worth it.
@kristiane (112)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Are you married with that man? If not, get out of his life before it's too late.
@TheIzers (680)
10 Mar 12
well I understand that knowing someone who you love is flirting or even loving other people must be really hurt you but I still consider you lucky. I mean you lucky that you found it out today before you marry him. love too much won't kill you as long as the other side is also love you as much as you do. if it doesn't then it is possible unless you let him go and try to find your true love. someone who will let you cry on his shoulder, someone who will love you for the next 100 years no matter what. cheer up, don't be sad.. the are so much love for you in this beautiful world... good luck ;-)
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
i know how you feel. i also had a relationship before, that was for 4 years and 2 months but it just ended so easily. the worst thing is, he's the one who ended our relationship without any reason. it really hurts because we already had a lot of plans for our future. after how many months i realized that i deserve someone else, someone who knows my worth. i realized that i was just wasting my time for 4 years. right now, i'm in a relationship for 1 year and 8 months and i'm not expecting too much because i don't wan't to get hurt just like before. boys are boys, you know what i mean..hehehe
@avante (4)
10 Mar 12
we are creatures of god. we can not determine our own soul mate. all existing governing, that is god. then, we leave it to god. i am convinced that our hearts will be more peaceful