I Hate When People Said That I Do Have A Lot Of Money!

Yeah. I hate people asked me the same. My husband is a foreigner and they keep on asking me how much money do we have and what's our monthly budget! It's feels like.. what?! It is none of your business! lol and sometimes they take advantage of me coz they assume that I have lots of money because I am with a foreign guy.

I think I know what you mean... Every time I came home from overseas, some people would just assume that I'm loaded with $$$ and expect me to pay for everything. Well, I just pay whatever I can afford and hope their assumptions will be true.

People like to express things in comparison to their experiences or lifestyle. If they are saying this, then it must mean that you are wealthier than them. It must mean that you do have more money than average working people. Anyway, it is just right to dislike people who take advantage of whoever when they see the chance. Money can make a lot of difference in any person's life, but it still depends on how you handle it and not how it handles you.

Nobody ever thought I was rich except once in middle school. A false rumor was spread about how much money my father made. Some other kids came to me asking about were talking more friendly toward them than usual. If I had of lied and said the rumor was true, I'd probably have been very popular. I'm kind of glad that I didn't. Even if I did have that kind of money though I'd be like one of those low profile rich people. Like those people you some times hear are loaded but yet they live in a regular little house and drive a cheap mini van.

And there are times when people don't even consider that even if we do have a significant amount of money, it doesn't mean that we don't have bills to pay. And they also don't think that we might be saving that money for important things - the college education of our kids, emergency funds, and such.

I'm just smiling upon reading how you express yourself when people are considering you as one with a lot of money. If that's the case, I think that there might also be some advantages. Like for example, if you have a program or business that you are doing, it might be easier for you to convince them to join you since they perceive you as with lots of money. Those who are interested will join you if they also want to have a lot of money. It works in both ways. I just hope you don't hate it the way hate is being defined, but be happy, knowing that God is good to you, blessing you with money. I admire you for making your money work for you and not you working for money.

Here, many people think that rich people should share their money with others. they like to lend money from rich people while do not pay it back as they think the rich one will not lack of money. I really hate that kind of people, though i am not rich. rich is not a crime, many people become rich through hard work, so their money is also hard-earned. While the poor use this way to get other's money. there is no differences between theft and them. to rich people do some good or not is their own choices not the responsibility.

Money lets you know who your real friends are. The difficult part is being able to identify your true friends. Good for you for working hard. you've earned your money. Tell the money grabbers to get lost. they are not true friends and you will not miss them.