Is someone more attracted to you than you are them?

Hi rodster! That's pretty tough, but I think I'd rather stay honest with that friend than be bothered by his intentions from time to time. Plus saying so in a girls POV, it would really be annoying and frustrating if my friend would have such feelings about me while I am just thinking baout him as a friend. And if ever that we come to a point where he can't accept that then I will have no other choice but to break our friendship. I don't want such things to affect the future relationship that I will have with my true love. So better keep things clear. Though it would really be sad loosing a friend, a good friend.

I'm having this exact problem right now! I'm not sure what to do about it. I enjoy this persons company and we have loads of mutual friends, but when it just comes down to it, the attraction isn't there for me. I get several texts a day where he compliments how I look and I either don't reply or say something like "if you really think so" or "not really." It's getting even more frustrating because he's started helping me out a lot. We're about to be coworkers and I don't want to cause problems for him or make anything awkward. I'm hoping that if I just keep shying away from his advances he'll get bored and find someone else and then I'll be the flavor of last month. Sounds like a decent plan, right?

I am in that kind of relationship. He said he loves me but my feeling is not as strong. I see him as a friend. I am not in that relationship right now and I already told him about my true feeling. But he said he'll wait. Right now I am giving my heart a chance to open up for him. He's a nice guy and I don't find a reason to hate him either. You won't know unless you try.

I have experienced such problem. What I did is to set limit and tell that person that there is no way I could be in love with him. I remained friends with some while others could not take it and I did not hear from them for a long time. Just let him know your stand.

I totally agree if you have been friends for a long time but have no attraction to them in the physical sense, don't even go there. I have an old friend and he always declares his love all the time but I have known him for years and its bit of a joke between us more like a big brother than anything. I think if you have that kind of relationship it should'nt be spoiled by other intentions. If they are not going to accept it they must be a stalker ..hahahaha. Sorry