do you agree that the relationship is just happy at first?

ooh that`s really hard situation ,i guess if you carry the pain he was given to you its up to you if you still hold on and want to stay with him for long ,well i guess if you love the person accept him ,face the truth but never bring yourself down ,remember your`e still young and hes old they always have a chance in life to change and the facts is you are just inlove , you are deeply blind in love .. lol :):P

It is our faults lots of times that we are not happy for the long run. Sometimes we let our minds take over and feel like the other person doesn't feel as good about us as they did and so on and so forth. If you are jealous, sometimes that will cause bad feelings that you will pass on to the other and that hurts the happiness. Also, the new does wear off, but it is difficult to get to know all of each others ways and accept them. Love is hard work. You have to make up your mind you love the person unconditionally whether there are some things or ways you'd rather they not be. Then again, some people commit themselves to someone before they have realized who or what the person is really like and you don't know if you can handle all of the differences or not. It is not easy. It hurts in love and sometimes it hurts...... I wish your relationship the best. I hope everything works out and you are very happy.

Sometimes it is just the expectation... sometimes you have to accep he things he couldnt do for you... being in relationship is so complicated but even though theres a lot of fight or whatever drama you guys are having..COMMUNICATION is the best TOOL let him know what you want and make sure you listen to him as well.. Cheating is not good I hope he wont do it again.. or sometimes karma has its own way to get to you.. let him how you feel.. and maybe sometimes your thinking hes doing it again even tho hes NOT!!

Relationship is definitely so much happier at first. I don't know if it's just me but I have come to realize that from my experiences with my partners before or maybe we're just weren't for each other. Of course first times always bring excitement and so much expectations, so much flattery. But that doesn't mean I am a hater, I still believe in love but you really have to sort out who's who for you. Don't instantly believe in what you feel, sometimes emotions are deceptive you have to be cautious. At the moment just enjoy the good feeling.haha!;

No. There are couples who live happily thereafter. I think for some who experience unhappiness is because most people think that their partner will change once they get married/live together. The best thing to is to accept your partner weakness, strength and learn to live with it. In every marriage there is argument and misunderstanding but that should not be the cause of unhappiness but couples should work towards eliminating what is causing the problem.

now i have no any one to who i love when i fall in love with some one then i will tell you that i happy or not at first. i try more but not any fruitful result achieve so far.

Relationships are fun and exciting in the beginning, aren't they? Everything is so new and the uncertainty and surprises make things so interesting. My husband and I have settled into a comfortable happy right now though, and we still miss each other when the other is away.

Hi rozilynf: It's so sad that you have to face these problems. However I don't think that things must be like that. I mean, it's up to a couple if they keep romance. Relationships of course have their ups and downs because when you are living with someone you have to deal with communication problems and the normal problems every family has. However if both people work together a couple can keep the romance and improve it actually. ALVARO

relationships are happy always happy at first. as time goes by, the relationship could either be happier or not. it's up to the couple to work hard on it and make it last.

I agree that a relationship is happy at first. I am in a relationship now and it's been a year and I don't want to be in it anymore. At first it was happy and now a NIGHTMARE! my boyfriend is very jelous and don't want to work at all. I moved him in and now I really know his true colors.

Often times...when two people fall in love with each other they are on their best behavior for a certain length of time. They are kind with each other and romantic and everything seems wonderful. Usually this behavior lasts from 6 months to 1 year. Then you have an opportunity to see your partners' true colors. You might see them losing their temper or you might find that you and your partner annoy each other sometimes. This is when we say that 'the honeymoon is over'. That's why the relationship seems happy in the beginning so yes... I agree that the relationship is only happy at first.