How to start conversation in Facebook Chat
By undertakernd
@undertakernd (37)
Bosnia And Herzegovina
March 11, 2012 7:13am CST
I've just found one beautiful girl on FB and added her to my friend list.
I just want a "modest" chat to meet her a little better and see if I like her and if she likes me.
Also it would be great if I get to the "hearts and kisses on the wall level"
Every reply is welcomed :-)
3 responses
@flamez3r0 (319)
• Puerto Rico
11 Mar 12
A "hello" might help :). If you don't know her at all, asking questions about what she likes would be a good thing. Make little jokes now and then like "wow I like that too, we should get married" to avoid falling on the friendzone. Don't make a lot of them because too much could be creepy. But the most important thing is just asking. Ask even if you know already from ready on her page, since you don't really know her having too much information on her could be looked as stalking, so asking gives her the chance to share whatever she wants with you, and that also works as an indicator of how much she trusts you, and it also helps you see if you would find her boring in the future.
@undertakernd (37)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
12 Mar 12
Maybe I should like her one of her picures for the begining ..
@flamez3r0 (319)
• Puerto Rico
12 Mar 12
that's never a bad thing, but if she's really pretty I bet she has around a hundred likes for every picture she posts, so talking directly for her will at least give you an opportunity to be remembered. Just liking her pictures won't leave that much of a mark I believe.
@undertakernd (37)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
13 Mar 12
You wouldn't believe but she hasn't got more than 20 likes per picture and that really suprised me too !
I'm composing a message at the moment which I will send tommorow in her inbox..
I just mentioned that I had to send her a friends request after seeing her profile. I also asked her a few things like where is she from, what does she do in her free time and something like that ...
I know there will be tens of girls like her in the rest of my "teengae-life", so why should I pay so much attention on her ? :)
Thanks for all your help ;)
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
I believe it's best to start with honesty and simplicity and that would be by introducing your identity and your explaining your purpose. Do not expect more as some people, if not most, would be hesitant to make friends with strangers, so even if you are telling the truth, there will still be chance that she would not accept it. It won't be easy, but they say that if you are persistent you can achieve anything. Good luck!
