LOVE and LUTS
By kini03
@kini03 (222)
Philippines
March 11, 2012 7:24am CST
not confused, but i was plain sure that love and lust are almost the same maybe not in meaning but on how men acted it towards women .. so big question is how can we know the difference of love over lust ? as if you guys know boys can hooked up so easy... i just need some tips to avoid heartbreaks? can you give me one :) thanks
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@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
11 Mar 12
Well first of all not only man tap that words but girls too... hhmmm honestly I think love and lust will always be together.. (well of course it doesnt apply on your love to you parents families and friends...)
It just that sometimes we cannot avoid to get our heart broken.. because its really hard to predict atleast after all those mistakes you have a lesson you got.. and will try not to do it again next time...
So grow wiser not older... and dont think of your mistakes as a bad thing but lessons to remember..
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
yes your`e right a love is emotional affection ,i just cant figure out why belong in the broken hearted lol seems i was good girl,:) and take note so many MR. WRONG LIKE player lol mr .PERFECT ,innocent but totally and definetely they are not.. huhuhuhuh :( ,, so thanks for the advice i must be wiser and forget about the past .. it really helps me .. :)to clear things up in my mind :)
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
11 Mar 12
looks to me that you are heart broken..dont worry time is the best medicine.. and just forget about him and be more beautiful..do things you couldnt do before while you are with him... I always tell to everybody that everybody deserves someone better.. :)
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
yes thank you im still young and i deserve better .. hes belong to my past and i want him to forget i know someday i will met a good guy better than him.. but i keep our memories as a good moments in my life,yes im happy to be single lady i can do what i want in my life no limitation .i can go party ,meet new friends and i`ve had nothing to be afraid for ,im thankful that i was wake up in my bad dreams :)
@flamez3r0 (319)
• Puerto Rico
11 Mar 12
Hi :). There's really only one way to know, and that is after sleeping together. There's really no other way since both lust and love express themselves as wanting to be with the other person. The only way in which one would know is the moment exactly after having slept with the person, if one still feels attracted to that other person then its love. If there's a moment in which you don't want to know anything about that person anymore then its lust. However, lust can also be used to form relationships since it usually comes back after a little break. So I would think the trick would be to check how he acts after the act, if he is half dressing while he jumps down the window then that was obviously lust. He still smiles and make jokes with you while getting closer, then maybe its love. But as you said, they are really close, I don't think there's a way to difference them before you risk heartbreaks.
