my ex boyfriend wants a second a chance ??

You have to be very careful not to encounter him if you really wanted to forget him. Go to places that have many entertainments so that you can have as many things to see and that helps you forget about your former boyfriend.If you do these things everyday you could eventually forget your former boyfriend and that you could start another life without him.If your destiny is to be with him the second time around then give him a chance but warn him of his former mistakes.This is up to your own decision what makes you happier.

i think everyone deserves a second chance but when it comes to your partner cheating on you then that is really hard to accept. if you don't love him anymore then that is easy to for you to forget it but if you still, somehow, love him, then that is a different story. you can confront him that you don't want him anymore in your life and at least tell him that you don't love him anymore (if that's how you feel) and... try to avoid him as hard as you can and also expose yourself more often to the things that remind you of him because then you will get used to the feelings and it won't be a big deal anymore in the future. you can do it and hopefully soon you can move on.

i think it depends on you you can measure if you can forgive him or can`t forgive him.. it depends on your heart.. who knows your heart voice except you and The God

hmm no one could tell you what to do on this one.. it totally depends on how you feel.. you cannot forget him of course.. he will be in your memory for the rest of your life.. you should find ways to move on first.. and when it doesnt hurt anymore maybe you wont care anymore even though your seeing him.. I think you should start deleting him on facebook and un follow him on twitter haha..

Tell him to fyck off and threaten him with a restraining order.If that doesn't work get the restraining order..

Next time you see him, explain that you know and you can see that he was sorry but now it's not about him anymore, it's about you... say to him that you need to move on, so stop bothering me(you) and move on...

hi there kini03, it seems like you are in a not so nice situation. that your postings shows too many sad faces, that indicates you really dont want your ex-boyfriend to be back again. in that instance, perhaps, it will be better to said it straight-away to your ex-boyfriend that you are not trusting him anymore and because of that, you are not happy to be back in each others arms. thus, often times, it is better to say the truth although it will be painful at the end.

If you really don't want to deal with him anymore, then don't, just ignore. But a better option would be give a chance to explain his side, rant out your decision, and then try to compromise of you being just better off as friends. Anyways, as a cheater myself, lol!, chances of him being sincere and loyal if in case he truly loves you, but it's still your call.

Just on a curiosity, I was looking on your earlier discussion topics and noticed this one. It is unfortunate that happend in your case that he left you for no reason and now trying to come back. I don't know whether how much it is true, but many girls from your country is facing such experiences. You all love them very much and after some time they would say good by to the girls. From the last 2 years of experience here in myLot, so many girl's discussion says such incidents. Mainly, in the teen ages period, all are in a good mood to get in a relationship with someone with whom we know each other. But when the boys are engaged with more and more girls, they would get more choices and they will turn around. But for girls, once they settle or ok with someone, they prefer to continue with the same boy and preferably for a marriage and settlement. But our recent developments in the young boys proves that they never stick on a particular girl and they will enjoy the life as many as they can. Good that you decided to not to go with him any more as they ditched you. I don't know whether you like this, but what you did is a great thing as he would learn a lesson and he would be thinking that you may come back whenever he needs. I like your decision and you did the apprpriate and concluded with the right decision also. But when it comes to the matter of forget, simply don't think at all and involve in differnt matters. I can just say that, but I know that for you it is not so easy to do so. This is the power of liking. Once we accept something as our own, and when it loses for ever, we sometime won't prefe to think of it or sometime needs to be weep on the same for the rest of the life. But being practical, whatever is gone or left, is lost for ever and find new ways where we can be happy. Think positive and I am sure you will forget all and slowly get into normal life when you get the real one who is destined by the nature. Good day.

Your love and feelings matter a lot now. For all the decisions irrespective of the others' say would ultimately coming from yours.

You need to let him know firmly that you need time to heal from his lies. Then cut off all ties meaning text,phone calls,visits etc. The only way your going to get over him is by not having any contact. Soon you'll look at this experience as a lesson in life. Don't put so much energy into hating him your still giving him control when you think about how he wronged you. Try to spend your time doing something healthy for yourself.

It is quite hard to tell you exactly what you need to do in this case as only you and your ex-boyfriend knows what happened. We do not know the circumstances, whether what led for him to cheat on you, and the gravity of the pain that you now have due to his actions. However unfortunate it is, I think that you can resolve this issue by talking to him one last time, if your decision is to end it. Before you do this though, you would have to re-evaluate everything that happened, and you should have an open mind to any discussions that you might have with him. That means that you will be willing to hear him out too. Ugly as it is, cheating on your partner is something we can call nowadays as a "common" thing in relationships. I mean one would be lucky indeed to find someone who is consistently faithful on their partner. As I've said in many of my posts, love requires hard labor and bottomless understanding. I think that sort of becomes innate in a person if it is indeed true love that they have in their heart. Giving a person a chance is one way to show your commitment to a relationship. By doing this, you acknowledge the fact that your relationship is not perfect, but you are willing to do something about it. Being in love is simply synonymous to getting hurt. The more you hurt, the more you deeply are affected with that person. It doesn't mean that you have to encourage hurt. However, by allowing yourself to feel hurt also allows yourself to mature and grow. If it is something that has been done against me for the first time, I would give one more chance to that person. If that person is indeed asking for another chance, that just goes to show his commitment to the relationship. If they have admitted their mistake and wishes to make up for it, I think that it is a good thing. What's not a good thing is if they keep repeating the same mistakes. What's even worse is when you keep letting them do it to you. With that being said, what I'm basically pointing out is that you should know when okay is okay and when too much is too much.

I believe that once cheater always a cheater. Follow your heart and make right desicion for the sake of your happiness. Good luck.

Tell him that you will not give him another chance and it is over, and you will not change your mind. Tell him to get lost.

I think that you have to sit and think clearly...You should try to hear his part..I think that there will have some rights on his part..otherwise he will not try to follow you..so try to hear him and understand the truths..That'll be a good choice if u take it.. thanks

its upon you you know that properly about every thing them, he good for you or not good for you.

I think you need to make it very clear to him that he isn't welcome in your life any more. Even if it comes to the point of you maybe being nasty in what you have to say. I personally wouldn't put up with someone cheating on me. What's to say that if you forgive him he won't do it again?